Family & Relationships - 11 July 2006

I am 27 years old man. I never dating with any woman as I was very shy & nice. About 2 years ago, I was took psychotherapy from a lady psychotherapist to be free from social anxiety. Now I am much free from social anxiety. I see & knew that women do not like shy, unconfident guys. They prefer bad boys.This hurt me very much. I have another problem that, I am thinking and fantasiging about the psychotherapist very much. I understood that I was fallen love with her. She is married & I know that it is unethical to do any relationship outside treatmen with her. I do not contact with her any more. But I can not forget her. Everyday every night I think about her. I also feel depresses thinking my unsucseesfullness with women as I am nice. I have much more sexual desire but I get nothing from women.These hurt me . I waste a lot of time thinking these which harm my everyday life , study etc. I want to stop that thinking & concentrate at my study. But I fail. How can I do this ? pls help me.

2006-07-11 23:28:51 · 13 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-11 23:27:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-11 23:26:34 · 19 answers · asked by tony d 1 in Singles & Dating

hey friends plz help me out i can tell you what prob iam having but i wont be able to tell you in the loby if someone really wnats to help me then plz mail me ia waiting

2006-07-11 23:26:19 · 6 answers · asked by adil a 1 in Family

Zain - from Kashmir

2006-07-11 23:26:06 · 3 answers · asked by Zain 1 in Friends

i am look ing for someone that i met on a course.
i have tried to look them up but have not succeded

2006-07-11 23:24:17 · 2 answers · asked by Linda G 1 in Friends

from the natural

2006-07-11 23:23:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy im with keeps going clubs with his friends he's cheated on me before he knows how much it hurts me wen he goes to sleazy clubs but cares more bout his enjoyment. I love him but he's going on a holiday to ianapa for clubbin and staying with girls he's kissed before its killing me but i love him and he continues to deny he'll do anythin and that im just bein ridiculous and gives out to me wen i ask him to reconsider going. wat shud i do?

2006-07-11 23:22:16 · 30 answers · asked by clara 1 in Singles & Dating

When making love i only reach orgasm once.Is it possible to attain it throughout

2006-07-11 23:22:02 · 9 answers · asked by hannah n 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-11 23:21:59 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-11 23:18:50 · 7 answers · asked by RR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this is really bugging me - ive put weight on in the last couple yrs & im jus starting a diet & exercise programme (yay 4 me!).however, in the last couple of wks ive had 2 guys tell me how unattractive i am or that they dont go 4 'big' girls then theyve tried 2 kisss me!!!this is really annoying, y do guys do this?& yes 4 ne girls reading this, they did say ive got a 'great personality'!seriously though, y?

2006-07-11 23:17:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do younger girls18-20 like to check out older men in their late 20's?

If so, what is the best way to approach a yourger girl?

2006-07-11 23:11:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did they fall in love with you even more or were they turned off by it?

2006-07-11 23:11:25 · 3 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating

I've heard that once they have a child together they will always care for her. Is this true? Are there any guys out there that can say that yes they will always care for her or no they don't care for them anymore.

2006-07-11 23:07:48 · 12 answers · asked by Sharon P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-11 23:05:58 · 15 answers · asked by hchwilsonuk 1 in Friends

2006-07-11 23:05:56 · 16 answers · asked by * wiSH * 2 in Friends

2006-07-11 23:05:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my and my partner want to get married. we just wanted to go away and do it by ourselves and not make a big deal out of it. just the two of us a couple of witnesses and a registary office.
i let my mum know what we were thinking. since then my brother has spoke to me and said that my mum was really upset that i was considering getting married and not inviting her or anyone else.
we wanted to just go away and do it one day - dont know when or where. we dont want to sit down and have to plan things or spend a fortune. we wanted to do what we wanted and then come back and have a big party - inviting everyone to help us celebrate!
i feel horrible now that i have upset my mum and we have decided not to get married as we dont want the hassle of who to invite, where to have it and when. it would just snowball into this huge wedding - something me and my partner dont want!

we have been together a long time and have kids.

what should we do?????????

2006-07-11 23:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by jil_bo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-11 23:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by Ooo 2 in Singles & Dating

i love a girl . we are chating on yahoo. she is from the same city in which i stay in .but the problem is she say's that i am a very sweet guy ,but she wont ever disclose me her real name or in which area of the city she stays . when ever she comes onlie she would definately talk to me. infact earlier for few days we were talking on the fone . but know even she has changed her no. all i know she is very mysterious girl . how can i get close to her . i love her a lot . plzz help me ..

2006-07-11 23:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by Hot Metal Rod 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello every one!! is it true that after we die we will go to heaven or hell???

2006-07-11 23:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by srini 1 in Weddings

2006-07-11 23:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by banginbrunett55 1 in Singles & Dating

every time i told her that i love u and she says that sexual intercourse is not love. when i force her to do this she says i hate u. i dont know what is the problem with her. kindly help me

2006-07-11 23:02:20 · 26 answers · asked by mnapak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does a chubby girl have a chance? lol

Make that a very pretty chubby girl, with sexy bedroom eyes!

2006-07-11 22:58:55 · 22 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

I started to date a woman I met through work who I thought I knew well. I took her out last night, and afterwards we came home to my house, While we were in bed she tells me she is married and has been for eight years. Her husband knows what she gets up to and it's ok. But I have to understand we can never be together full time.Why do I keep attracting the users , is tehre any woman out there that will love me and only me .? In return they get a good lifestyle and a loving partner .

2006-07-11 22:58:41 · 19 answers · asked by nicksmithis 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-11 22:57:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If someone is depressed and you serioiusly think that they are also wallowing in self pity - I think the best thing to do is to ignore it and leave them to it. What do you think? I don't think its a good idea to molly coddle them - they have to deal with it and come out the other end themself. Some times a good kick (reality check) is needed??

2006-07-11 22:57:09 · 21 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like no one wants to be friends with the drug-free people anymore. Are we really that bad? These days I feel like everyone's on drugs but me. Anyone know what's up with this?

2006-07-11 22:56:48 · 15 answers · asked by bekkiboo31 4 in Friends

2006-07-11 22:56:31 · 14 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Singles & Dating