u know im a chubster myself :-) but i'm a really laid back kind of person and i just except that im not a size 2,6,10 or even 14. the average size for a woman is 14. so people should just except there not perfect and why would u want to be, then youd be like everyone else. it really helped me to go on kind of a shoping spree and make a rule no sweaters or sweats. once u find a store that has big girl clothes go wild...i did. i used to hate summer cause i would be so uncomfortabel but then i thought "hey i'm getting older, why not except how i am and live the rest of my life happy, then miserable always wanting something more" i've always been bigger but i think cause of my personality i've always gotten cute guys infact my boyfriend i'm with now, before me he had always been with skinny girls but now he says he loves my rolls and we've been together 5yrs now. good luck and remember just except your not perfect thats what makes you unique :-)
2006-07-11 23:21:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Well this is too general I do not think that appearance alone will be enough for a guy to decide to date a girl [unless of course you mean a one night stand]. I have never decided on the girls general features because I have dated models [I kid you not] and they were really shallow, I hate to use the owrd 'air heads' but I cannot have alternatives. The girl I am currently dating is chubby but we knew each other for months before I even thought about dating in a way i kinda like the fact that she is chubby.
2006-07-11 23:15:40
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answered by samydan 3
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Every girly/women has a chance. Some men are not shallow and go for figue but personality. I have a very big friend and she is married with two children. So yeah chubby people have a chance. If we all looked the same men would get board really quickly.
2006-07-11 23:02:43
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answered by Pinkflower 5
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I think it makes it more difficult, because appearance is what you are judged by. it is the first impression. Looks tell alot about who a person is. that you take care of yourself, that you have confidence, etc.
I think it is important to just be you, I think that personality will shine through, if someone is truly the right person for you they will look past the fact that you are a little overweight.
2006-07-11 23:12:52
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answered by Cara B 3
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It depends how the guy looks. Most hot girls go out with hot guys, people attract partners who are similar to themselves. Thats the way the world works... but there is cosmetic surgery, go to the gym or get some lipo
2006-07-11 23:02:36
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answered by Christian S 4
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all women no matter of the way they look should have a chance looks are there for all to see but it is what lays underneath below the surface that a guy should look for all the rest is just plain wrapping that could be holding the secrets of a wonderful woman
2006-07-11 23:06:18
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answered by flying_eagle_72 3
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It's not about how important it is. It depends on what the guy likes . Some guys like very petite women and some like the fully figured women, it;s all in personal preference. I prefer petite woman
2006-07-11 23:08:22
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answered by P K 3
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Depends on the guy. A good portion would probably have it be something they consider, but not all. So yeah there is certainly a chance.
2006-07-11 23:02:37
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answered by LilMikey 3
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i'm 30 something and "chubby", and i've learnd that some men find us attractive, and some just want that bathing beauty. but in return do we find the men attracted to us the same way? usually not. but there is that someone special out there for everyone. in the mean time you have to just stay true to yourself and what you believe in and what you truely want in life, and no man can ever give you that gratification. hang in there, your one and only is out there waiting for you.
2006-07-11 23:12:53
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answered by Anonymous
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well anygirl has a chance there a guy 4 every girl so if u got a few extra lbs. chill u will find someone who loves you just the way u are ok.Just be you
2006-07-11 23:05:21
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answered by Hea Dude ! 6
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