How long does the infatuation stage of a relationship last? Does it make a difference if you have distance between you? I'm asking this question because I am married lesbian and met another married lesbian online. We have met in person and talk on the phone all the time but we live a couple hours away from one another. Neither of us want to be married... we have different reasons for why we are. We want to take things slow but that first part of a relationship can be so intense. When does it end and the "real" stuff begin?
2006-07-11 03:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by Codi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
About our marriages: her marriage is emotionally stunted and her husband is an alchoholic. my husband is a controlling a**.
2006-07-11 04:10:38 · update #1
This is a tough question to answer, since your infatuation is of the same sex, that being one issue...so ok..I can accept that, you know what you want out of life, however, you've already committed to one person and your question is when does the real relationship begin with another person...since its still another women, at least you know what you want...but you seem to have a problem with who you want...as in any other committed relationship...break up with the one before starting another...or else the infatuation & excitement of a new partner may not and should not develope into infidelity toward your other partner....I question whether you know what love is, since your married and yet your looking for affection elsewhere.
2006-07-11 03:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first let me say that you are committing adultery; and just cause there is no sex involved don't mean you ain't doing it. Second if you are married and did it for the wrong reasons only you are to blame for the pain and suffering that you experience. Third, why are you meeting and falling in love with this woman you met on-line? Do you know that in some strange event she could know the someone who know someone who know your partner? Be very careful care matters of the heart is something no one should play with and if you truly feel like you don't want to be married and can't make your partner happy then you should sit them down tell them how you feel and what you have been doing and let matters take it's course.
just remember that if you and the mystery lady don't work it's only cause you have defiled both marriages and God punish you for that if you don't repent.
2006-07-11 03:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love each other. There's no difference really.
2006-07-11 03:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue
2006-07-11 03:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by hotgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋