Family & Relationships - 9 July 2006

No, I'm not trying to create controversy here . . . it's a legitimate question. I'll turn 40 this year, and have never been married. I am a confident, healthy, intelligent, romantic, not boring, and not too nice man. For some reason though, women hate me because of this.

It would be easy to say that I need to just "be myself" and some woman will eventually appreciate me . . . but that's no longer acceptable. My prime dating days are fading quickly. A change needs to be made, NOW.

With this in mind, what is the best way for me to become a bad boy so that women will want me? Should I slap them around? Cheat on them? Verbally abuse them? I'm open to any and all suggestions. Truly is a shame though that I have to sell my soul, just because I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone.

Only serious responses please.

2006-07-09 14:30:47 · 33 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I always seem to attract mentally disturbed weirdos!!!

2006-07-09 14:30:11 · 11 answers · asked by ...o(_insert witty comment_) 3 in Singles & Dating

okay today ma girl was online chattin with hella people then goes and puts upa picture of herself so the next ***** could see her should i be mad??

2006-07-09 14:29:55 · 4 answers · asked by dunhamwifey04 1 in Singles & Dating

my hubby went and did something i told him i could take care of my self with two of his family members who was doing what i believe ...making fun of me.so he confronted them when i asked him not to and now the whole family is involved we both or all are uncomfortable with talking to each other now i believe he messed up with my trust and now it's hard to trust him im still upset am i wrong? or him?

2006-07-09 14:28:23 · 10 answers · asked by madsquad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this other boy at school, and hes not my bf, is this consiered cheating? what should i do

2006-07-09 14:28:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The Cocky + Funny type, the Jerk, the Nice Guy........And what about his looks?

2006-07-09 14:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I WILL BE MOVING BACK TO NC NEXT YEAR WHAT SHOULD I DO

2006-07-09 14:26:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my Boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and we are very much in "Love" i almost got pregnant but i had a miscarage and lost the baby...anywayz we got into trouble and got kicked out of a bunch of places and now he has to move back to Masschuettes and stay there for about two months or longer or he will go back to jail .....should i wait on him or should i let him go and find another one because im scared that he might find someone else or cheat on me even though he promised me he wont so what should i do??

2006-07-09 14:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by sexy b 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married to him now, but he is still talking to her on a regular basis and keeping it a secret.

2006-07-09 14:25:27 · 29 answers · asked by Primavera 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 18.I really like my boyfriend alot. We've been going out for about 7 months. My dude is so attractive, everytime I see him I bascially want to jump right on him. I lost my virginity to him and we been going at it like wild animals ever since.Every single time I talk to him we always end up talking about sex after the first 15 mins of talking. I also like watching flicks!! He's says that I'am a freak, but dont you men like your women like that?

2006-07-09 14:24:58 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-09 14:23:52 · 15 answers · asked by bebe1028 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom and dad are divorced. my dad lives in california and me and my mom live out in michigan. today me and my mom got in an argument. we worked it out and its all cool now. but just now, i heard my mom talking to my dad on the phone telling him all about the fight and how it is all my fault! its so aggrevating!!!! why does she do that? she does it every time we fight. what should i do? should i talk to her about it?

2006-07-09 14:23:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

becaus i dont

2006-07-09 14:22:52 · 13 answers · asked by ilove2talk100 1 in Friends

My boyfriend "Jason", is a bisexual male. For three years we've been together, and were briefly engaged.
Jason has always maintained a "hidden" interest in men. He tries to hide his interest in checking out guys or looking up male porn. He is more attracted to men than women, and will admit this freely. I knew this when we got together, and thought it would be okay. He loves me very much, and our physical life doesn't hurt for this. He finds me desirable, and wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. But I am extremely insecure. Jason's more feminine by nature, and I am constantly being teased and "counseled" that he is too gay. I don't know if I can do this for the rest of my life. Even though he really wants our relationship to be monogamous and work out, I don't know if I can find happiness here. His true nature seems to lie in a life I can't give him. He is the first and only man I've loved, and I'm so scared that if I leave him I'll miss him forever.

2006-07-09 14:22:38 · 4 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now. We live together. He's 34, I'm 25. First it was how I was spending my money, then it was how I spent my time, now it's how much wine I drink. I feel like I'm 18 again and living under my parents roof. I can't pour myself a glass of wine without him giving me a look now. Last night he woke up to find me with a glass of wine, watching TV. It was after midnight but I was just trying to get some "me" time in. He was pissed at me. I felt like I was just caught drinking under age by my mother. Damn I'm 26 years old, old enough to drink, old enough to makle my own decisions. I feel like he's taking my youth away. I sacrafice every other weekend to spend with him and his daughter too. Can't I be treated like an adult here? I'm not wreckless, I don't drink and drive, I don't cheat, I just like to have a glass or two of wine here and there. He's watching and judging my every move. What should I do? As you can tell I'm frustrated! Thanks

2006-07-09 14:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am newly engaged and love my fiance with all my heart, everyday i try harder and harder to show him the best way i can that i love him more then life itself. i want to do more. what should i do. i am not worreid if he loves me so dont assume i'm trying to convince him of anything. i know he loves me the same i'm just looking for something creative to do for him.

2006-07-09 14:22:19 · 5 answers · asked by Drea 3 in Weddings

She wants to go to jekyll island but i do not know what we could do. There is a beach there. My mother has alot of friends and we could have a get together at the pool tomorrow but tomorrow is her birthday.

2006-07-09 14:20:55 · 25 answers · asked by funyakkers 2 in Friends

remember a relationship that you were in, that didnt work out soo well. write out a mad letter, telling this person what you think of him or her


make it long if you can.

2006-07-09 14:20:52 · 17 answers · asked by sad but cute 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-09 14:20:05 · 9 answers · asked by dsgc05™ 6 in Singles & Dating

i really want to kiss this guy but i do not want to sound cheesy but i want to get the point across! help? also would you rather be asked to be kissed or just have it happen?

2006-07-09 14:19:26 · 6 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone tell me? I can't stand kids. Not all women were meant to be mothers, you know? When my friends tell me they can't wait to "have a family", I 'm like, What the hell are you talking about?! The idea of it disgusts me! Why on earth woud you want to give up any chance of future happiness (for yourself) and freedom just to have some guy's litter? I've even asked MY OWN MOTHER this, and even she confessed, she could have done a lot more with her life and career if she didn't have a family. I agree. The first step of avoiding the "desperate housewife dilemma" is not to become one in the first place, right?
What do you think?

2006-07-09 14:17:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Not in a serious way, just every once and awhile. It seems like the way a woman "should" look in society is so clearly defined that it would be impossible not to. Women, on the other hand, love their guys for whatever they look like. Usually.

2006-07-09 14:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of moving to Florida. I would love to be in a city that is near an airport, has some culture and diveristy, not too far from water, but is not in some of the Hurricane prone areas (for example, Miami).

2006-07-09 14:16:54 · 7 answers · asked by OutOfMany 1 in Singles & Dating

is my theripist allowed to tell my parents im havin sex w/ bf b/c im not hurting my self or another. my theripst told me she can only tell my parents if i am hurting my self or andother person, so why is she telling my parents im still having sex w/ my bf?

2006-07-09 14:16:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I and my friend are setting here talking about the ladies in our office that seem to always have something bad to say about each other.(behind the back of those) I have found myself doing this very same thing and we want to know what every one else thinks on this.
I know we all do this at one time or another . why do we back stab and talk about one another .

2006-07-09 14:15:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-09 14:15:13 · 24 answers · asked by Kay-Kay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-09 14:14:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

That older men prefer younger woman, and older woman prefer younger men, and if so dont you think there would be such an age gap that the releshionship wouldnt work?

2006-07-09 14:14:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You can tell me, I won't tell anyone...I promise!

2006-07-09 14:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-09 14:13:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends