i have been married 25 years-since high school. My husband left me to be with a much older woman, she is married also. He has lived with her since i caught them 10 mos ago. Our kids love him and i still love him. He has at times seem like he wants to come home and work on us, and at times no.
No one has ever met her (family), wants no one to come out there, he does take care of us (hasnt missed a payment or abandon us) but lately hes very irritated, says dont keep asking when hes coming back home, he needs space, his cell phone got cut off, her house is being foreclosed on soon, he says everyone thinks hes living the great life over there, let him work on things, he has to get his self together, ect.
Do i just back all the way off, my feelings are starting to diminish after all this time. I have loved him thru all this and have put up with the pushaway and mixed signals. Why does he stay there and not just come back home to a family that loves him very much? What hold does she have/
2006-07-09
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