What is the best way that I can mistreat women so that they'll like me?

Question

No, I'm not trying to create controversy here . . . it's a legitimate question. I'll turn 40 this year, and have never been married. I am a confident, healthy, intelligent, romantic, not boring, and not too nice man. For some reason though, women hate me because of this.

It would be easy to say that I need to just "be myself" and some woman will eventually appreciate me . . . but that's no longer acceptable. My prime dating days are fading quickly. A change needs to be made, NOW.

With this in mind, what is the best way for me to become a bad boy so that women will want me? Should I slap them around? Cheat on them? Verbally abuse them? I'm open to any and all suggestions. Truly is a shame though that I have to sell my soul, just because I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone.

Only serious responses please.

Answer 1

There are a a lot of women out there that would be with you, some are right here...just look at their questions. I personally would like for you to stay the way you are, 40 is not that old,..she is out there..In my opinion some women wouldn't appreciate you anyway. You should feel blessed that you haven't had to put up with a typical female, who would screw your brains out till she said I do, then won't, will want to change you, and b*tch at every turn....and put you in debt. JMO

Answer 2

So you're saying that for the first 40 years whatever you were doing didn't work and you figure the best course of action is to take a turn for the worse, correct?
Look, the way I read this you have the wrong perspective of the situation. What you've been doing is akin to someone trying to score a touchdown while playing baseball.
Women aren't objects. They're people! Just like you. If you truly don't want to be alone then you're going to have to learn how to be with other people.
Your self-description leaves no room for doubt. There's nothing wrong with confidence until it becomes arrogance. I don't know you and I'm not saying you're arrogant, but you know you, and you're the one who has to look in the mirror and tell that guy whether he's a confident caring individual, or an arrogant A**H***!!!
All relationships fluctuate, and a couples relationship has the extra added dynamics of love and sex to augment those fluctations. Why do you say women hate you because of your sparkling characteristics?
Could you possibly be mistaken about them. If All the women you've encountered have reacted in basically the same way maybe it's not them.
Even so, that's not a reason to assume that what you're looking for in a relationship would be better found by you acting like an A**H***!
Maybe you need to back off on the confidence thing a little. Try changing the places where you meet women. Try not meeting women. Try a new hobby. Go to the library and read a book. Seriously. There's all kinds of info at the library. Self-help books that can give you a perspective of yourseslf that you've never considered.
"Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" by Dr. John Gray is always highly reccomended. I never read it but it was a big hit when it first came out. And don't order the book on line, GO TO the library. Get a library card and check the book out. It'll be like a little exercise in commitment.
Finally, if you really feel like you need to become a "Bad Boy" to have a good relationship with a woman, then maybe therapy would be the best route.
Good Luck bro.

Answer 3

You do not mistreat women to get them to like you. Be yourself, honesty is the best way to go. No real woman likes a liar or abuser or a scam artist. Treat them like you want to be treated. Or better yet "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you", that is from the bible paraphrased. You do not have to spend the rest of your life alone and not sell your soul for a woman. Turn to the Lord and pray, pray hard honestly and wait on his answer. He will answer you in his on time. It will take some patience, but do not get discourage. May you should be alone for awhile to figure out why you would even think about selling soul no woman or man is worth going to hell.

Answer 4

mike, cheating or being verbally abusive won't get you anywhere except Hated. Sounds like to me your just not meeting any real good women. Most women wants a Good man who is confident, sure of himself, a man that can stand on his on 2 feet. A man who can handle different situations as they come up. One thing is maybe your looking to hard and wanting to meet someone to much--- just chill. Who knows, she may be right around the corner. But, whatever you do, just be yourself, don't change into some jerk.

Answer 5

Well, some like their breasts to be massaged
Have sex
Maybe kiss her by surprise, like just randomly when she is not paying attention, pull her towards yourself and give her a kiss on the lips (most girls don't mind tongue) Make sure that you know this girl a bit before you do the kissing one.
Buy them what they need and sometimes what they want
flatter her
flirt
don't hit hard, but a light hit
carry her, like lift her and things like that
Kiss a lot, even when she isn't expecting it, make sure that she won't mind that much
hold her close
take her out
love her, cherish her
where a biker boys outfit
buy a motor and take her on a ride on it
every time, take her aside, get alone and then start major kissing
don't be desperate but give her all the love that she needs.
make sure she catches you staring at her boobs or her bra or underwear if it is showing
I hope that this helped
~Reyanne~

Answer 6

hun, it's not about hurting them, however that always happens with a bad boy....it's the sexual animalism that the bad boys exude. you need to just be born that way sweetie...really! you can't turn it on and off like that. you need to just smoulder from the inside out. if you are a nice guy and you cant find a woman who appreciates a nice guy, you must be looking for the wrong kind of woman. you are attracted to the bad girls, no? ps...you should really consider looking outside your regular likes and maybe settle, gosh i hate to use that word, for a different kind of look or persona. being mean to a woman to make here love you is just stupid.

Answer 7

The best way to become a bad boy is to not be desperate. women can smell desperation a mile away. Its true, dont act so like an eager beaver. be nice and charming and interesting and a little aloof too. Maybe tell them you are going to call and then dont call for a week. Ha! dont call when you say you will call.
for a while anyway, and alway act interested but like you have other stuff going on.. too.
Hope that helpss.

Answer 8

Honestly, your right, most women really don't like "nice guys" for one reason and that's/c they don't feel like they are being challenged. But its a fine line to say what you need to do, b/c if your too nice they won't think of you that way and if your too much of an asshole they won't want you either. I wish I could honestly help you with this, but I really don't know what to say b/c I don't know. If I got to know you I might be able to tell you what you need to do. But I have a friend who is kinda in the same boat as you and his problem was when ever he started dating a girl who he really liked he would want to be around them all the time, and i guess it kinda smothered them. so I dunno. I wish I could help you more. Don't worry though, I'm sure things will work out!!

Answer 9

In my opinion you have been lonely for too long. I hardly think that developing into a cruel maniac will solve your problem. Maybe you need to develop a personality instead. I am certain "your problem" lies deep inside yourself. The mere fact that you are serious with this question strongly suggest that. My advice is to seek psychiatric help. There the answer to your question may be found. There may be hope for you yet and romance could be in your future.The type of romance that will surround you with respect and love...not fear and loathing.

Answer 10

Nah brah... what's sad is that you think you have to pretend to be somebody else to get women. It sounds like you don't care about feelings or a relationship if you're willing to slap them around anyway. If you're just looking for sex, then have lots of money, or atleast appear as if you do. I don't think you'll meet quality women like this, but it doesn't sound like you are looking. Good luck.