Me and my Boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and we are very much in "Love" i almost got pregnant but i had a miscarage and lost the baby...anywayz we got into trouble and got kicked out of a bunch of places and now he has to move back to Masschuettes and stay there for about two months or longer or he will go back to jail .....should i wait on him or should i let him go and find another one because im scared that he might find someone else or cheat on me even though he promised me he wont so what should i do??
2006-07-09 14:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by sexy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please, why would you want someone who have trouble in there life .that's all you would have done threw your life away.You are starting out wrong.What if you had the baby that's more problem.You can get someone who will be there .so if he found someone else.That's good for you.Things will work them self out .Don't try doing it yourself.If you believe in god .Give it to him
2006-07-09 14:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by bigdaddy e love 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! It sounds like it has been 4 very intense months for you. How old are you and your boyfriend?
I can't make any decisions for you, but there are a few things in your question that raise some red flags.
* He's clearly been in jail before
* He continues to have trouble with the law, or at least authority (being kicked out of places and such)
* Your gut sense seems to know already that he may cheat or lie to you
These are MAJOR things.
I would say that you are worth more than a guy who is in so much trouble all the time. Past behavior is the best predictor of furture behavior, and his track record is pretty awful.
If all of this has gone on in just 4 months, I would say move on. Try and find a nice stable guy, even if he seems a bit boring at first. You are worth a nice guy who isn't going to mix you up in his legal troubles.
2006-07-09 21:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this relationship happened to fast. Only 4 months and you are talking about pregnancy, jail and being kicked out! All i see here is drama drama drama. This relationship is a mess just in 4 months, what is going to happen in 4 years?
I think it would be best if you took the time to find someone with less problems and drama, and next time you may want to use a rubber.
2006-07-09 21:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by Indigo7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with a jail bait, you have not been dating this guy for any great length of time and really shouldn't be with someone that is in and out of jail. Move on and find someone else.
2006-07-09 21:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo 4 months? wow that's a LOOOONG time! yes, i think you should wait forever and ever for him to get out of jail, and i think you should keep giving yourself up so easily to guys so you have hundreds of children. you sound like a 16-year-old girl who ran away from home to be with the guy your parents don't like. you're not in love, sweetie, you just wish you were.
2006-07-09 21:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Everything 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about the ways he is to got you in this predicament to begin with .. trouble is a clue !kicked out ey>? hm....... do not wait for this turkey .. immature and you will go nuts..
2006-07-09 21:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, then wait for him and trust him that he won't cheat on you. If you really love someone, then you should stay by their side no matter what. Distance only makes love stronger.
2006-07-09 21:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Define LOVE
2. Consider yourself very fortunate that you miscarried.
3. Let him go, and do NOT find another.
4. Complete your education, first and foremost.
2006-07-09 21:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go BACK to jail? Honey, use your common sense on this one and get rid of him. Move on and find someone who is not trailor trash.
2006-07-09 21:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just move with him? if that isn't an option then you should just wait for him it is only 4 months you will live and if he cheats then why would you want him anyway?
2006-07-09 21:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋