My wife and I have been married for two months, but we have been living together for over five years. Two weeks prior to the wedding we were on the verge of calling it off but decided to go through with it after the assurance that we would get into counseling immediately. To make a long story short, our relationship has consisted of many ups and downs from finances, mistrust, physical and verbal abuse. She recently told me that she has no desire anymore because I can't change for good. She says she loves me but she doesn't have it in her anymore to trust me or believe in me because everytime I change, it's short lived. I am taking different steps this time around, even prior to finding this out. I told her when we got married I let go of alot of things that caused so much pain and distance between us. I got into counseling, got put on meds for anxiety and depression, going back to church. We're living together but in seperate bedrooms. She just says it doesnt feel natural.
2006-07-06
02:06:45
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imagineus2night
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Marriage & Divorce