I like this boy who is 14 and I'm 13 and he's like a inch or two shorter then me I don't care but he might care if we went out as bf/gf. I REALLY like him a lot.He's cute funny polite.He's perfect!
But how do I let him know I like him and How do I find out if he likes me.
I see him once a week.
Oh yeah and he's shy about that kind of stuff.He's not a shy person but once you start talking about dating girls guys kissing.He shys a way and go's to a corner.
2006-07-06 02:02:50 · 29 answers · asked by lipglossgrl25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And this is for guys: Do you think he would care if he's shorter then me?
2006-07-06 02:06:15 · update #1
Guys I will try to be really good friends with him first and wait a couple years(Hopefully not to long though.) to try and become bf/gf
2006-07-06 02:09:36 · update #2
All I really want to do is be really good friends with him and hold his hand and stuff like that.
2006-07-06 02:14:36 · update #3
WOW! :O Sounds like a problem. But don't worry. Just be yourself and show him how much you care. But be subtle if he's super shy about that kind of thing. Remember, girls mature faster than boys so it's probably going to take you to make the first move. Start asking him out to the movies or to a carnival...something that you both would like. Flirting is a tricky thing and the only way I flirt best (but I DEFINITLEY DON'T SUGGEST YOU TRY IT!!!) is when I'm drinking around a guy I like. I usually just give hugs and hold hands. Why not try this and see where it goes (NOT THE DRINKING PART I MEAN!)? Show him how much he means to you by saying sweet things and giving compliments. (for example..."I like your new haircut...it's cute.") If he doesn't ever respond to ANY of this except in a "let's be friends only way" then you know it's not yet his time. Remember...friends before lovers. Even if it doesn't work out right now there's always high school. ;) I wish you luck and if you need any more advice my s/n is wendysue85.
2006-07-06 02:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a short note and pass it to him. That way he has a chance to think it over without being embarrassed. If he shys away, then he's probably never had a g/f before and you can bring him out of his shell. It could be that he shys away because he's not as strong a personality as you are, so be a gentle person around him. Height difference means nothing if you care for someone enough and you might let him know this when you start talking a lot. He'll catch up, by the way, girls most of the time are taller at that age.
2006-07-06 09:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a boy like that when I was 13 (and he was 14). One of my best friends also had a crush on him and made a horrible scene so that he was embarrassed and slunk off all the time. I flirted, but tried to stay mellow and just be his friend primarily. Alas, we drifted apart and both dated other people but then... well, I woke up next to him this morning. We're in our 30s now.
The best thing for you to do is remember that you are children and be children together. Be his friend. Talk about fun stuff. You aren't looking for a husband right now, and even if you were the wait to finish school so you could get married would drive you nuts. So, be his friend. Talk to him about stuff that you think is interesting, invite him out to do fun things. That will show him that you like him in a non-threatening way. Don't freak him out with loveletters and stuff, just hang and it'll all be okay.
2006-07-06 09:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by kaplah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age the height difference that you mention is absolutely no problem. Right around that age is right before some boys get a major growth spurt, and girls being taller is not unusual. He'll catch up, and I doubt that he would be intimidated by it.
However, the rest---just let anything that may develop happen naturally. Especially if he's shy about girls. That also is pretty normal at this age. You'll just frighten and embarrass him. Leave him alone. Give him some time, however long it takes, to reach the appropriate developmental level. You're rushing nature, sweetie.
2006-07-06 09:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with him, be his friend and be yourself. It may take some time, but if you are good for each other he may just take a shot one night and give you a kiss. Boys his age can be a little funny about guy/girl stuff cause they just don't know what to do. Be sweet, have fun and you will probably find yourselves on a different level pretty soon.
2006-07-06 09:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by kelley and mark j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should leave him alone, is he shy or just not interested in you? He'lll come forwards eventually, if he likes you. Chill and take time to be his friend first, and why bother with bf/gf at your age? have a really good and solid friendship that will last longer than the summer vacation!
2006-07-06 09:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by rami #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13... hmmmmmmmm far too young to be thinking about dating and kissing. Why is it young people want to "grow up" so fast.
Let me ask you this. If you live to be 80, and you start doing more grown up activities (dating, kissing etc) at 13. How many years to you have to be a grownup. Hint- subtract 13 from 80?
You have 67 years. YES 67 years to be a grown up. Enjoy your youth as a youth - far too young to be thinking of dating and kissing. Geeeeez!
2006-07-06 09:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girls grow quicker than boys at your age so it's no surprise you are taller. However, the best way to find out if he likes you is to ask him. You should try to be good friends first because at your age you really need to start learning how to develop lasting friendships.
2006-07-06 09:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him flat out. the worst thing that could possibly happen is that he would say that he didn't like you back. he sounds like the type to be nice about these kind of things, i don't think you have to worry about count. whenever one of my friends is having a moment like this, my best friend always says, "some people can live a hundred years without ever really living a moment so if you tell him that'll be one less moment you haven't lived." i know. it's very pep-talky. but it's true. go for it. good luck!
2006-07-06 09:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by nothingis_sound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see he is a person who shy's wery much so i think you should say like first of all in a corner where no ones there like see i really like you and just wanna be my boyfriend. and mention that does he likes you he will definetly say yes if he likes you and he was shy because this matter cant be discussed in front of every one . he will definetly say yes and i think the matter may go to wedding after some 10 years .
2006-07-06 09:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋