I was just haing about with ym bf and his mates and they were going on about their gf cheating on them and it sparked a question? I mostly wanna know guys opinions? but girls too!
2006-07-06 02:09:35 · 21 answers · asked by cherri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys really are, but they won't let on.
2006-07-06 02:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Guys are super insecure. Much more insecure than girls. Think about this. A moderately attractive woman in a bar who decides that she is going to pick up a guy there, assuming it's not a gay bar, is 95% likely to pick up a guy there. A man in the same position is only about 15% likely to pick up a girl.
Really, pity the boys. We can bleed for a week and live. We can squeeze living beings out from between our thighs. We can have multiple orgasms. We have weird body parts they have no clue as to the mechanics of. And they have this weird idea (I think we gave it to them, actually, but it's very silly because it's a terribly unproductive concept) that we require giant penises and marathon sex to satisfy us. They are scared to death of us.
2006-07-06 09:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by kaplah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be human is to be insecure, at least sometimes. Even people who receive lots of positive validation from their environment come to rely on that validation, and can lose confidence when they aren't receiving it. Usually, the outwardly ******** people -- often males -- are only suppressing inner insecurity, or else they wouldn't feel the need to act that way.
2006-07-06 09:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be very insecure. The really good looking guys can be the worst, because they think women only like them for their looks. They come across as cocky, but they aren't nearly that sure of themselves.
2006-07-06 09:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course.
Men have many if not more insecurities about themselves as women. We tend to bottle them up more though. Toughness is our form of a shell to protect us from feeling hurt.
2006-07-06 09:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by dd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people i know are committed to who they're with and most guys I know trust their women--we all hear stories but those are a small group of people who cheat!
2006-07-06 09:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by david s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy and i think that yes guys r insecure but i think that the girls worri to much.......i think that they worri more about it then guys do and this is coming from a guy that hangs around with girls 24/7 so i no what i am talking about..........
2006-07-06 09:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by fobstah14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can be just as insecure. Girls are more open about their feelings though.
2006-07-06 09:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by georgia1980 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are very insecure. why do think they're always showing off their muscles, driving flashy cars, and talking about how big their ***** are? insecurity.
by the way, wanna ride in my car, cause i have a big dick? *flexes muscles*
2006-07-06 09:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by DigDug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are insecure and not all guys are secure (confident). Pure and simple as that.
2006-07-06 09:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by Lounge_coverup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure most guys are usually pretty insecure, maybe about how "big" they are, or if their g/f is cheating.... im sure they are usually pretty insecure about alot of things
2006-07-06 09:16:12 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋