My younger brother is 20 and he still asks me to buy his porno... How can i make him understand that its not my job as an older sister to fulfill his dirty sexual needs?
2006-07-06 02:24:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Um, if you don't buy it but instead take the money he gives you to buy it (I'm assuming you aren't buying it for him with your money) and buy yourself something nice.
2006-07-06 02:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I would not caal his like of porno a dirty sexual need. If that is what he likes to do, then there is nothing wrong with it and it is safer than actually being out there doing it, though admittedly not as fun.
To answer your question though, you simply need to tell him he is an adult now, and if he wants to purchase porn materials, that it is time for him to do it himself. Let him know that you believe that if he is old enough to view such things, then he is old enough to aquire it on his own. If he cannot do this, then maybe he is not old enough mentally to be viewing it.
Good luck
2006-07-06 02:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Raistliin 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your brother is 20yrs old he can go to video place and buy his own. Besides, there is enough people on the streets selling dvd's that he should have never asked you to do it anyway
2006-07-06 08:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a dildo instead of porno and when he bitches tell him to shut up, cause you're sick of buying stuff for him. Only joking about the dildo.
2006-07-06 08:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by nymphomaniac980 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him buy it himself. I don't know why you have even been buying it for him since he turned 18.
2006-07-06 02:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by budlover 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just say "no". No offense that's odd. If he's not old enough to buy it himself he's not mature enough to look at it.
2006-07-06 02:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow a pair and go in there himself and get it.
2006-07-06 02:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Shadoobie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a bank account and use his bank card to purchase it online.
2006-07-06 02:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by AeroMidwest82 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just lend him your porno!
2006-07-06 04:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow you're a very cool sister.just dont buy them. no explanations required. have a nice day
2006-07-06 02:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him to do it himself, or embarrass him when doing it.
maybe give him a basket of porn for xmas in front of everyone.
let him know though that you're not mad, you just need him to realise he shouldn't need to depend on you.
2006-07-06 02:28:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋