Family & Relationships - 6 July 2006

2006-07-06 16:10:35 · 50 answers · asked by greeneyed angie 1 in Family

My childrens father and I have been living together for 21 years some good some bad. We have not been a real couple for the last 12yrs. But we stayed living in the house for the children so they would have both parents. Not putting aside that all of the children are handicap in some way. Also not putting aside I have been getting sicker for the last few years.
He has had at least 4 affairs that I know of and he has had them around our house with the children. But he feels that I should not have anything to do with another man. But it is hard because I am tired of being alone and not having someone there the way I want them to be.
Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-07-06 16:09:24 · 7 answers · asked by mistyjlr 2 in Family

I am in a relationship yet I still "check out" other men, watch porn, read erotica and I have caught myself flirting a few times with other men. To me this is all innocent because I know I would never cheat on my boyfriend. Also, I am respectful enough not to do these things in front of my boyfriend. But when I catch him "checking out" other girls, or looking at porn it makes me extremely uncomfortable. He swears that he would never cheat on me, but these actions still make me feel like I am not woman enough to satisfy all his needs and that he must go elsewhere to meet them. Why do I feel this way even though I (secretly) do the same things?

2006-07-06 16:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by PHD-NDN 2 in Singles & Dating

I need help here. What can you buy a women over 40, with an expensive taste, when you are travelling abroad? She already has most regulr things...expensive gifts are very risky (chances are she will not like it...and it is impossible to return...cheap stuff is out of question...) any ideas?

2006-07-06 16:07:27 · 19 answers · asked by dan m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and have been through a lot with each other. We have talked about getting married before, but have not because I want to finish college and he is in the military and wanted to get settled.
Now then the thing that I don’t understand is we are just a few months from being where we want to be at in life and he has been acting funny, but He is being deployed the 15th again and things are different then before when he had left. The thing that bothers me the most that I don’t understand is he will say something like “The person that knows what I want will be the one that I marry” or he was having some problems with work and I tried to give him some advice on what he might to do, and his first response was that it was none of my business and that it was not like I was always be around. He and I have never fought about anything Until now He has been coming out with some really mean things. I don’t know if I am not seeing something.

2006-07-06 16:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by covergurl_85 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend that i have known for about 10 years is dating my cuzin.......and now...i just found out thats shes having sex with him...and all of my family knew before i did.....she doesnt know why im mad.....i told her that i will probably never really get used to my best friend in the whole wide world dating my cuzin and having sex with him.......she still doesnt understand.....i told her.."would you like it if i was doing a family member of yours......she just doesnt understand....some people dont get why i am upset or why im not excited about her dating him......do you understand...and whats ur input about this....????

2006-07-06 16:07:04 · 4 answers · asked by byrdie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been dating my bf for 51/2 years now and he wants sex i want to just give him a bj and go to bed with him (if you know what I mean) this is my first time giving someone a bj and need some pointers anyone got any???????????????

2006-07-06 16:06:39 · 9 answers · asked by Giselle L 1 in Singles & Dating

This is what happened she talked behind my back and said she didnt wanna be my friend no more and that she was afraid to tell me but before that she ran off with my xboyfriend and ignored me then she ran off with another guy she told me sorry and now we are friends should it stay that way we are 12 years old

2006-07-06 16:06:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend who is part cherokee indian and I would love to buy him something for his birthday (belated) where can I find a free catalog

2006-07-06 16:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by smartkat7 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

does anyone have love tips for me!! I need a boyfriend!!

2006-07-06 16:05:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean their behavior in public

2006-07-06 16:05:21 · 20 answers · asked by unicorn 2 in Singles & Dating

I like my friend brothers

2006-07-06 16:05:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so chad and i have been together for over 1 year and this past weekend he broke up with me because "he cant trust me and thinks im too much of a flirt" so when i saw him on monday i went to his house and kinda sorta seduced him and he said it was going to be breakup sex, and i was like there is no way i could have breakup sex with anyone, i kept on telling him it was makeup sex and we were goin to be okay afterwards. and afterwards he couldnt forgive himself, we stayed together and now he says that it ended up being makeup sex because we stayed together. I love this boy with all my heart and would do anything for him. Did I make the right choice by staying with him? What is ur opinion on the whole situation?

2006-07-06 16:04:09 · 8 answers · asked by luvaboopixie 1 in Singles & Dating

Please I know that i should leave him. But I need to know how. I need to know more then just leave him. I love hime and have put up with him sleeping with the both of us for 3 years and i want him to pick me now. And see that i can take care of hime like i have been without him sleeping with her and other girls.

2006-07-06 16:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by precious2825 1 in Singles & Dating

Instead of having sex, or masterbating...what else works well for you?

2006-07-06 16:03:30 · 9 answers · asked by answerb4midnight 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-06 16:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by alexisjo95 2 in Family

My wife has a very good figure. She can eat more than two large men and she doesn't gain weight, at least not yet. But if she doesn't start exercising soon, I'm sure she will get pontoon thighs and start looking like a beached whale.
p.s. I'm a health nut and I work out everyday

2006-07-06 16:03:22 · 32 answers · asked by Billy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking of having black bridesmaid dresses, but am not totally sold on the idea. Anyone out there have black bridesmaid dresses for their wedding or have any thought on pros/cons of having this so-called "funeral/non-traditional" color for the dresses?

Our wedding is in August of 07 and my other colors are magenta and bright orange.

2006-07-06 16:02:54 · 61 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Weddings

My hubby spends every minute at home on the computer. I can't even have a conversation with him...I will say something to him and then he will just make up a few words to say back that have nothing to do with what I was saying to him. Does anyone have any comment about this? I am just about to my breaking point. This has been going on for over a year. Thanks

2006-07-06 16:01:47 · 23 answers · asked by a_snowe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-06 16:01:42 · 22 answers · asked by girlnextdoor 1 in Singles & Dating

Am looking for a long term relationship, but, I can't even get to know a women before she starts talking about her x and crying.

2006-07-06 16:01:26 · 2 answers · asked by Leather 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my husband is occasionally using crack, he says he doesnt have a problem. I moved out, and think hes full of crap, I dont want to sound stupid, I'm not into drugs, so I dont know much about it. He "hid" crack in our home, and wouldnt tell me about it. Now that Ive moved out he seems to want to have nothing to do with me, I'm cute, and a good wife, so whats up??!! my husbands a weirdo huh u guys?

2006-07-06 16:01:21 · 15 answers · asked by kprice7122 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I tried very hard to trust my partner but somehow i do not have a sense of sec urity..what can i do?

2006-07-06 16:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by kopisoh 2 in Singles & Dating

I had this dream, more like a fantasy. I was spending the night with one of my really close freinds, who is single and straight. We were making out, then we strated having sex. I don't know if I should tell her. I can't stop thinking about, I found myself wanting to do it with her really, but as I said shes straight, and I don't want to ruin our friendship.
I'm a girl btw

2006-07-06 16:00:39 · 16 answers · asked by Bleu Yeux Belle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Background: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year &things have been awesome. We get along great and are best friends. He always calls me w/in 15 mins of when I get off work EVERY day.
Problem: Today he called > an hour after I was done & told me that, since he had had the worst day ever at work, he was sitting at a bar. He said he didn't want to see me b/c "it'd start a fight." He said he wanted to be alone but that he just wanted to let me know where he was and that was the reason for his call.
The thing is, I'm not the type of girlfriend to argue over stupid things with my boyfriend and we rarely ever fight. He didn't want me around to talk to or complain to or anything today. This bothers me because when I have a bad day, I want to see him. I expect him to be able to come to me for comfort, support, distraction, whatever - I'm his girlfriend & I'm here to be there for him. That's why I'm upset, b/c, unlike usual, he didn't want me around.

What's going on?

2006-07-06 16:00:27 · 15 answers · asked by krd12 4 in Singles & Dating

is it really a good idea to have a child after your 40?
some young people think not . but older poeple say yes. who do u agree with?

2006-07-06 16:00:22 · 15 answers · asked by Aurora S 1 in Family

2006-07-06 15:59:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i am taken right now. but my x boyfriend keeps calling me and won't leave me alone. my boyfriend now and my parents have told him to stop calling me but he won't. the reason i broke up with him is b/c he wanted to get me pregnant and im only 15. what should i do to make him stop calling me?

2006-07-06 15:59:38 · 31 answers · asked by cheerbabe 1 in Friends

2006-07-06 15:59:19 · 4 answers · asked by Jazzy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years. 3 weeks ago she left me for reasons i didnt know at the time. I am a changed man, and realized what i put my wife through( emotionally lazy) she told me that when we left eachother that its not goodbye its see u later. We used to be madly in love but it has slipped away these last 7 months. She calls me every now and then, but she has no emotion when we talk(I know now why) She said last time that we meet that i looked really good and i made her laugh. She always ask if Ive been with any girls on dates. (jealousy?)We both said tonight that we were both stood up for dates. I call her every now and then but i give her the space that we need. we are still legally married, and i can feel a small shift on how we see eachother now. She has been giving me money to help me out. I told her tonight that i now know what she was going through bc shes sort of doing it to me. Does she still care for me. What do I talk, look for when we talk tm

2006-07-06 15:58:44 · 15 answers · asked by abyss5069 1 in Marriage & Divorce