ok i am taken right now. but my x boyfriend keeps calling me and won't leave me alone. my boyfriend now and my parents have told him to stop calling me but he won't. the reason i broke up with him is b/c he wanted to get me pregnant and im only 15. what should i do to make him stop calling me?
2006-07-06 15:59:38 · 31 answers · asked by cheerbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should get a restraining order
2006-07-06 16:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you need to take drastic action. "Stalking" is a serious thing. You never know when this person may "cross the line". He is obssessed with you. This should be reported to the phone company and the police. Do not take these persistant phone calls lightly! When he calls DO NOT answer. With people like this, any thing you say, nice or not nice, will be interpreted in his mind as you still want to have something to do with him, or that you still care. Avoid him and his phone calls at any cost and take some legal action NOW! Be open and honest with your parents and let them help. Good luck, take care and be safe.
2006-07-06 23:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by hjandf2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first next time he calls you should realize you have had much more tolerance than alot of other people would have. if he doesn't back off he has problems, serious problems. he is over obbsessive, a stalker and the list you probably would be able to continue.... but call the police, give them his name, address,phone number,etc. and tell them he's been stalking you, after you have broken up, and tell them you have given him a chance too many and he has taken advantage of your kindness.
tell them why you broke up (he wanted to im-pregnant you)and how he's been stalking you. start to keep a notebook filled with the dates and times of when he calls, so you have proof. tell the police you want to file a restraining order, try toget them to prohibit him to call you too. if he does take him to court. also change your phone number and dont get it listed in the phonebook.
2006-07-06 23:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and tell them that he won't leave you alone. I'm sure that they would at least go and talk to him and tell him to stop. you could also have your parents talk to his parents about it and see if they can talk some sense into him.
I;m so glad that you didn't have a baby at 15. Remember to always use protection.
2006-07-06 23:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is making harassing phone calls and will not leave you alone you may have to involve the police and file a restraining order. Sounds like he could be dangerous and maybe not too mentally stable. ~Be careful & Best of luck~
2006-07-06 23:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Saffron♥Daydream♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider explaining to him (the next time you have a chance - like when he calls again) that if he does not stop calling immediately, you (or your parents) will have to discuss with his parents the problem AND why you broke up with him. Don't be mean or angry or threaten him. Just explain this calmly and then follow up and do it if he doesn't get it.
2006-07-06 23:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Old guy Tiggrrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Get a restraining order. This creep is a controller. He wanted to get you pregnant so that he can control you through his kid. He is trying to get back with you because you were the only one who put up with this type of control, for a period of time anyway.
Get police action asap.
2006-07-06 23:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with it - call the cops, this guy obviously has a mental problem. Are his parents aware? Things could escalate so don't delay. Good on you knowing better than to have a kid now, wait another 10 years! Enjoy your youth, kids are for life.
2006-07-06 23:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by dogriver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should of told him to practice getting u pregnant not to actualy try to get u pregnant! I am a good teacher if u want a good practice partner! Hit me up in a few years when u turn 18!
2006-07-06 23:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your bf? Just ignore him and don't answer his phone and if it gets bad enough call the police and maybe try to get a restraining order.
2006-07-06 23:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Cait g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number to an unlisted one or get call blocking on your phone. Another option would be to have your parents call his parent(s) and request that they keep him from calling.
2006-07-06 23:03:11 · answer #11 · answered by dcbowls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋