Please I know that i should leave him. But I need to know how. I need to know more then just leave him. I love hime and have put up with him sleeping with the both of us for 3 years and i want him to pick me now. And see that i can take care of hime like i have been without him sleeping with her and other girls.
2006-07-06 16:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by precious2825 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go on Jerry Springer.... and make him choose. Good luck.
2006-07-06 16:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you want to put yourself through that bullshit nobody's answers are going to do you any good! Please if not for the sake of yourself but for other women in the situations like this across the world, put your foot down and demand some ******* respect! Everytime he goes over there to be with the other girl I know a part of your soul dies, please get up an over the obstacle. Think about how this going to affect your child, seeing her dad act like this and thinking that you have no backbone. Please, I beg you for your better judgment and leave him, you don't want him!!!!! There is a man out there that is ready and willing to give you love and attention until your heart is going to burst with love!!!! Give it time and give the mystery man a chance. If you think you are letting her win you are wrong, in this case whomever gets the **** up out of that relationship first to leave the other girl with the scumbag, asshold, son of a *****, is the one to win honey and with all of my heart I pray that it will be you. Take some advice, and win for women all over the world dealing with pigs.
2006-07-06 23:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl!!! please, sorry baby, let me give it to you straight. First of all you should be thinking about you and your baby. Make yourself happy, it seems like you've answered you own question. You don't like him sleeping with other women; what gives him the right anyway. Don't let that man get the best of you. I know that you stated you love him, but do you love yourself?? Think about it. To get rid of him is like going to the dentist and getting your rotten teeth pulled. It will pain you after-wards for a while, but you will get over it. Take it from me an ol' gal. Take care of yourself and your child. By the way is he wrapping up? Think gurl! Peace
2006-07-06 23:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes got it made , hes never going to change, can't you see that. and even though you want him to pick you i think he just likes playing the field too much. and as far as leaving him goes , you have to want to , the only reason why he does this is because he can , all the women in his life let him , if you all said no then he'd be nowhere. it's basically up to you and when your going to draw the line on him. you need to get your dignity and self respect back , he's taken all that away from you
2006-07-06 23:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u have bin put thru too much and that u need to leave him and find a man that will love u the way that u deserve to be loved........ u need and deserve the best girl and i think that u can find better then what u have now.......if u new from the start that he had bin doing this then y didnt u leave then......until waiting till now.........i hope that u will take mi advice and find someone that can treat u right and the way that u deserve to be treated.........good luck in the future and Giod bless u on ur journey girl..........
2006-07-06 23:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by fobstah14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl it's hard but it boils down to do you love him more than yourself or your health. Unfortunately, you can't make him choose you. He was to want to do that himself. Just remember our relationships are a reflection of us. He realizes that you love him more than you love yourself so he is treating you like crap right now. you just have to start loving yourself by taking care of you both physically and emotionally. He will realize that he might lose you and then he come running back to you.
2006-07-06 23:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie.. here's what you need to do. go into your restroom and take a good look at the beautiful, strong and independent woman staring back at you. doin it? good. now smack the s*it outta yourself for being so damned naive! leave the no good bastard, take his sorry butt to court for child support, and get you a real man who'll take car of you and help raise your lil one in a good environment.
2006-07-06 23:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by casadienickole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. God. I don't know where to begin.... You won't listen anyway right??? Get out and get a life girl!! This is no where near "love". you are letting him treat you like a doormat. STOP IT!!
2006-07-06 23:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this Britney Spears?
Time to get a lawyer!!!!!
2006-07-06 23:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by Leather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mee6t someone who respects and loves you
2006-07-06 23:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by honeysuckle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋