I had this dream, more like a fantasy. I was spending the night with one of my really close freinds, who is single and straight. We were making out, then we strated having sex. I don't know if I should tell her. I can't stop thinking about, I found myself wanting to do it with her really, but as I said shes straight, and I don't want to ruin our friendship.
I'm a girl btw
2006-07-06 16:00:39 · 16 answers · asked by Bleu Yeux Belle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No...see this is something that you cant just blurt out to your friend. You have to wait until just the right moment to bring it up.
Like if the next time you too are together and maybe watching the TV and a girl/girl situation comes on.. You may want to laugh and just ask her casually...if she ever had thoughts about being with another girl.
If she goes...OMG NO!!!! Then you can just let it slide.
If she says...something like...Well there was this one girl in school that sorta kinda made me think about it, you could just say. .. Yeah...I've thought about it too. and then just drop it.
If your friend is the least bit curious...she will ask more questions and then you can tell her about your daydream. Just dont rush into it.
2006-07-06 16:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams are not just dreams. They are your subconsious mind chewing on unresolved issues. You coulud tell her about your dream without telling her you want to be with her. Just say 'hey.. I had a crazy dream with you in it...' and she'll either blow you off with a "geez! that IS a crazy dream' or she'll jump on the opportunity to explore the possibilities if she has had similar thoughts.
2006-07-06 16:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by city_boy_36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her. It might put weirdness between you and even if you guys did experiment together that might change your friendship too. Maybe find out how she feels about two girls being together. you might open up a conversation that would be safe to see how she feels about that kind of stuff.
2006-07-06 16:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by lilsprina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT tell her. She will run away. She may think that it wasn't really a dream, that it's just something you want to do. And then she may think you may want to act it out, so she will just run far far away! Keep it to yourself. Stay friends with her.
2006-07-06 16:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and make sure that you make it clear that it's just a fantasy. See what happens. It can't hurt, it's just a thought.
2006-07-06 16:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her. Being that she's straight she would prolly be really weirded out. If you tell her she is going to feel weird around you and it will prolly cost you the friendship.
2006-07-06 16:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not, she'd probably freak right out and tell a lot of people and you'll never be friends with her again... just keep it to your self
2006-07-06 16:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, defiantly don't tell her that!
Sometimes dreams come to reality.. IF she is that way, it may happen in the future sometime.. but don't say anything.
2006-07-06 16:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would ask her casually about what she thought about some random girl kissing her and see her reaction to that.
2006-07-06 16:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by amber m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl it just lust and it wont pass u dont tell her it'll put this thing between u and if u tell either shell like and flirt wit u and make u hate it just telll her itll kill u if u dont
2006-07-06 16:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋