ok so chad and i have been together for over 1 year and this past weekend he broke up with me because "he cant trust me and thinks im too much of a flirt" so when i saw him on monday i went to his house and kinda sorta seduced him and he said it was going to be breakup sex, and i was like there is no way i could have breakup sex with anyone, i kept on telling him it was makeup sex and we were goin to be okay afterwards. and afterwards he couldnt forgive himself, we stayed together and now he says that it ended up being makeup sex because we stayed together. I love this boy with all my heart and would do anything for him. Did I make the right choice by staying with him? What is ur opinion on the whole situation?
2006-07-06 16:04:09 · 8 answers · asked by luvaboopixie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that u made the right choice of staying with him and that u need to stop being "premiscuous" i think that is y he is no trusting u.......i hope that u get all the best out of the future.........good luck and God bless u in the future........
2006-07-06 16:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by fobstah14 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well to start with it sounds like the whole relationship is built on sex as it is anyway, and even though sex is a great part of a relationship, if that is it's foundation, it is destined to crumble sooner or later anyway. Make up sex is not something used to KEEP a relationship together, it is something that a solid relationship uses to keep it stronger. One that even had the sex not been there, there was no question whether or not it was staying together.
2006-07-06 17:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please forgive me, but I think that you're using sex to manipulate this young man. Why would you want to "give of yourself" in that manner if he doesn't want to be with you anymore? Don't you think that perhaps you're lowering yourself to be wanted? Most young men aren't going to turn down a "freebie" no matter what the "conditions" are. You're suffering from a bit of low self-esteem, my friend. You need to realize that you have more to offer someone than just your body. Your actions with your boyfriend just reinforced his opinions of you...that you're easy, a flirt, and a tease. If you truly love him, stop with the games. Be honest. Don't make it so easy for him to have you. Good Luck
2006-07-06 16:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by manatee lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take time to build your self esteem with out a man. By doing this you will have a better sense of yourself in your next relationship. You won't be second guessing your decisions you make in your life.
2006-07-06 18:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Alaisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are his real reasons for not trusting you.......is it really just flirting? and if he wanted to break up with you........why would you SEDUCE him......i wouldn't freely give myself to anyone who wanted to BREAK-UP.....and besides that, you should of SAVED yourself for the man you are married to...if you really loved him you would of waited to have sex with him and given him the best and most precious gift you could have ever given him.......people take sex and relationships to lightly.......first of all he had already made the choice to break-up with you ........you manipulated the situation with sex........if you truly loved him you wouldn't do that or would you flirt with other men......because he would be the ONLY one you wanted to flirt with..............now it will just be a little longer in this relationship until he dumps you for someone else........you are to easy for him.........you give him the sex he wants to have......an old saying........why buy the cow when you can get the milk for FREE............
2006-07-06 17:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by lil ole me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if all he wanted was you to stop being a flirt and you can pay more attention to him and you love him. then things should be fine if that is what he wants and thinks that he can trust you. but by having sex with him does not show him that you can be trusted. you are going to have to show him that.
2006-07-06 16:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by covergurl_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Suprise! i'm a lady and indignant ability i do not should be astounding." you also of route don't sense the opt to come across the fashion to spell undemanding words like "marvel". in my opinion, I choose "hungry" sex, excellent when I placed on my indignant makeup.
2016-11-01 08:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so long as you both enjoyed the sex what dose it matter once you break up it will happen again
2006-07-06 17:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by chris b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋