we were both young going in this relationship and both vulnerable, im surprised it lasted as long as it did when i think about how it began. we were inseperable for nearly 3 years, nearly everyday, completely in love, well, seemingly to me. last friday she went to one of her female friends' bday party and didnt invite me or make mention that she wanted me with her. the first time in 3 years she didnt want me to be with her. i asked the next day whats going on, she says she feels that we are too serious and that she needs her own time to grow up and find what she really wants out of life. she says she feels to dependant upon me.
i agreed with everything, who am i to try and talk her out of her natural feelings? as much as it hurts to do so i had to let go and give her the space she needs. this was a week ago and im torn up over it, after 3 years the split didnt seem to affect her like it did to me. i cant eat, sleep, im a walking "break-up cliche".. i dont have the energy to move on
2006-06-28
07:03:05
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knucklehed
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