Family & Relationships - 28 June 2006

My 33 year old bf is getting a brand new Harley XL 883C. Its gonna cost us 17k when everything is all paid(bike+fin+war+etc). This includes 1k we are paying as a down payment. I co-signed on it but got to thinking, should I be doing this? This is why, he's 33 and I'm 23 we live with my parents. He's still married to his wife(she ran away from rehab + now we can't find her for a divorce and it will cost $600 to do.) We owe 1k to my parents from when I was hit by a car and I lost my job, and 2k for hospital bills from when I tired to kill myself. I just started a great job that pays well. His reason for wanting the harley is that his car that we just paid off is old and almost falling apart and he's worried that it will stop working, and that he's always wanted one. I think that we shouldn't buy the bike now but use the money to get rid of some debt and for him to get divorced and us married. I know this looks like a show from Springer but what do you think?

2006-06-28 06:45:40 · 12 answers · asked by crazy_in_lov 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-28 06:45:31 · 45 answers · asked by Zoe <3 1 in Singles & Dating

I treat my man very well and I do all kinds of things for him. I don't yell at him or harp on him about stuff. He goes online and looks for more girls all the time and and it seems like he is looking for someone better than me.

2006-06-28 06:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by driven_college_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-28 06:44:43 · 37 answers · asked by britt16 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are currently living with my older sister. My mom is disabled and provides babysitting for sisters 3 children. Now my sister says that she wants them to move out and this 15 year old kid of hers can watch the other two! My parents have a limited income and it will be hard for them to make it on their own. They refuse to move in with me because of the bad experience they had with my older sister. Disown or not?

2006-06-28 06:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-06-28 06:43:59 · 38 answers · asked by monica 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-28 06:43:52 · 47 answers · asked by abc 2 in Friends

2006-06-28 06:43:43 · 18 answers · asked by Clare S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-28 06:43:29 · 4 answers · asked by shy guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

pray for me because i need a job because i have a baby in me in her daddy is not togather no more

2006-06-28 06:42:59 · 18 answers · asked by Sun Shine 2 in Friends

qualitys, etc. Interested in your viewpoint on this subject!

2006-06-28 06:42:58 · 16 answers · asked by Bgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a 5.11 180lb swimmer built, im gay women always hit on me im still in the closet so i respond sometimes. I dont go to gay bars , i dont drink and want to find a person who doesnt just like my body i want somebody who likes to talk aqnd share and is hott.

2006-06-28 06:42:52 · 4 answers · asked by Scott 2 in Singles & Dating

Be honest. Would you feel jealous or insecure?

2006-06-28 06:42:49 · 12 answers · asked by lu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I dump her or go along for the ride ?
She is great in bed!!

2006-06-28 06:42:09 · 7 answers · asked by joey 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-28 06:41:39 · 14 answers · asked by funny bomb!!!!! 1 in Friends

you know to suck dick..good..bad..hairy..what?

2006-06-28 06:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-28 06:41:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, he is my best friend. and all I want to do it marry him. I think that we would make such a wonderful couple. Does it work out well or should you keep them as a friend?

2006-06-28 06:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by misrdhd 2 in Singles & Dating

a boy has been hitting on me all year and all my friends and his friends r telling me to go out with him

2006-06-28 06:40:51 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently got out of a really hurtful relationship, and now I'm with my girlfriend of 4 months. I really care for her, but am a bit scared of taking our relationship to the next level for fear that she might just use me like my last girlriend. I can tell that she really wants our relationship to go futher, but I'm not ready to take that step. What should I do?

2006-06-28 06:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by skidouble1 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes, NO, I'd have to meet you, those kinds of things.

2006-06-28 06:38:54 · 37 answers · asked by socceraholic391 1 in Singles & Dating

1. Enter your question
Please do not use ALL CAPS. It's rude.

lol y do they put that?

2006-06-28 06:38:53 · 6 answers · asked by boss 2 in Friends

What is the reason is it the cigarrette itself or is it the thought that the girl looks dirty and may offer a dirty experience?

2006-06-28 06:38:08 · 5 answers · asked by davejckent 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so scared to be tested all over again. He performed oral sex on me without any protection for about an hour. Before this happened I was tested and I was negative. I haven't called him in months so I don't know how to go about telling him how scared I am to be re-tested without him thinkin I'm trying to ruin his day. I have not had sex since then and I feel very healthy. Could anyone help me go about this the right way. All I want is for him to show me that he is healthy and doesnt have it because I just don't want to go through being tested again. Because if he can show me that he doesn't have it I will know that I don't need to be tested. Please someone give me some advice because this has been worrying me like crazy since that day. How should I go about calling him after all of this time without him being suspicious. Am I just being paranoid and am at a very low risk? Please someone help me calm my nerves. And I will definately select the best answer. Thanks people

2006-06-28 06:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by Tracee 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey Girls,
How many dates do you think are appropriate before having sex with a guy?

2006-06-28 06:37:34 · 14 answers · asked by Trevor h 6 in Singles & Dating

how did u feel???

2006-06-28 06:37:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a compulsive liar who keeps lying even though it is obvious to both of us that they are untrue. He sometimes gets himself in more trouble by lying. He lies about big and small things. He tells people his father is alive though his father died when he was 4. He lies about everything! Why????

2006-06-28 06:37:17 · 15 answers · asked by joyfish 2 in Friends

I work for a bank, on the new accts/loans side, and I see this one customer come in like once a week or ever other week. She is incredably cute, she'll smile and wave at me, and I do the same. I'd like to ask her out for a drink, but if she's already in a relationship or she just doesn't want to, I don't want her to feel uncomfortable anytime she comes in here. I've never asked anyone of our customers out while working mainly for that reason. How should I handle this?

2006-06-28 06:36:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-28 06:36:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-28 06:36:17 · 8 answers · asked by tlwhack 2 in Friends