2006-06-28 06:44:43 · 37 answers · asked by britt16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
25 and never been happier :)
2006-06-28 06:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Monica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married the day after I turned 20. I thought that made me "20" but I realize now, that I was still 19. You don't change in one day. *lol* Some things were hard, but I never have regretted my decision and we are closer than ever now.
It shouldn't have been a problem, because I have been cooking/cleaning/working / taking responsibility for family for years, and was very much looking forward to the chance to be a good wife for someone I loved so much. I didn't feel at all like I might be missing out later on some sort of 'free' life or something, or that I would wonder if another guy would be more attractive, etc.
Things were difficult for a while, mainly do to his friends and their bachelor-like attitudes and constant put-downs of me in front of him and in front of people, but they improved once we got away from them, and now that we've been through a lot, I just thank my Creator every day for him and for my marriage and keep trying to make it better all the time. :)
The point: know who you are, know what you need. Make the decision for the long-range future.
(I also don't feel that the 'we got married too young' is a valid reason for calling it quits - everyone changes all throughout life, and sometimes getting married when you're older is even more difficult because of being set in certain unflexible ways. You still have to adapt and grow together no matter when you married, throughout issues and decades, and I feel this is a cop out for some, blaming the past, rather then working on the future!)
2006-06-28 06:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by UnrealJuju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-28 06:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-28 06:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-28 06:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was and still am 23, Just got married Feb 14 06. My husband is 28.
2006-06-28 06:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-28 06:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-28 06:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by tbaby302000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 husband was 21 got married Dec. 31 2003 been together since i was 15 and he was 17 and were still together ..am now 21 and he is almost 24.. love my husband but missed out on some of lifes greatest things.......wouldnt recommend n e one get married before there 25 ... go out and enjoy life to its fullest then settle down
2006-06-28 19:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by princess_of_saxton519 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
23 and my husband is 20. we just got married on June 3, 2006
2006-06-28 07:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by halocraze86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 years old. married 17 years. grew apart after moving to a big city from a small town, major job change for him, split days off, over the road trucker (use to be home every night), and adopted another child. Away from family members for us both.
2006-06-28 07:28:32 · answer #11 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋