I'm 13 and Still don't have a boy friend! and people at school think im lesbian! what should I do?

Answer 1

Be who you are and let them think what they want.

Answer 2

1st of all.........don't care what other people think!

You will have a boyfriend when the time is right! If you're picky on who or what kind of guy you like, thats good for you!

Relationships aren't a thing to rush. I bet if you look around your school you see people breaking up and arguing all the time.

It's a cool thing to have a boyfriend, but I'd rather be happy with who I chose to be with then rush it and be miserable!

Just take your time hun, your right guy will come and YOU will be the smarter for waiting and not caring what anyone thinks about you.

13-18 is a hard age to be at, between a child and adulthood and those who are rushing into relationships at 13 are bound for alot of heartbreak.

Trust your feelings and find someone when you are ready, not when everyone is pressuring you too!

You will be wiser to do so!

Answer 3

Because you don't have a boyfriend at as young an age as 13?!! It wouldn't be much less ridiculous even if you were 23. Single doesn't mean homosexual! Don't let yourself be pressured into dating just any guy just so you don't get teased. Anyone who teases you for not having a boyfriend is too immature to be in a relationship themself. I had my first boyfriend at 15. That didn't work out. When I did meet my future husband, I was 16 and he was 22. I was his first girlfriend. He hadn't even asked out anyone before, because he hadn't met the right person yet. My best friend dated over 30 guys when she was younger, just because she didn't like being alone. I'm glad I didn't, and I even wish my husband would have been my only boyfriend, even if I would have waited longer to meet him. Just don't be in a rush, no matter what anyone says.

Answer 4

The kids at school always need something and someone to talk about. Unfortunately they picked you for the time being. Keep in mind that junior high and highschool is a very short time period in your life, although it doesn't feel that way right now. And most people feel as though they "survived" it rather than "lived" it. Find friends you can depend on, and let them help you through the sucky times. Eventually the kids will find someone else to pick on. And if not, you can always become a happy, rich, successful person (after you graduate college of course) and come back to your class reunion and say "Look at me now!"

Answer 5

Your age probably has nothing to do with someone thinking you are a lesbian. There are lots of girls that do not date until 16 or older because their parents won't let them. Don't worry about boys, concentrate on your school work and you will find the right guy later, most likely in college you will date lots of guys and find the right one there or after.

Answer 6

That's dumb. People shouldn't b calling u a lesbian. There is probably a guy @ school dat likes u but he doesn't want to say he's going out with a girl that every1 thinks is a lesbian. Jus try to look 4 guy and don't listen 2 other people. A ugly *** guy called my a lesbian and 2 prove him wrong I went out w/ this hella cute guy.

Answer 7

First of all, you are SO YOUNG! Don't worry if you hadn't had a boyfriend yet. I didn't have my first real boyfriend until i was 15 years old. IF i were you, i would ignore them, they can think what they want. You know yourself and you know the truth. Just enjoy being a 13 year old, go out w/ your friends, hang out w/ your family, get involved in school activities. Boyfriends will come in due time. and eventhough it may seem that everyone has a BF except you, that is not the case.

~Latina~

Answer 8

You don't need a boyfriend. Let them think what they want. Go on with your life and have fun being who you are, you can be single and happy, no problem. Especially at the age of 13. Even if most of the people in your school at your age have a boyfriend/girlfriend, its probably not even serious. Relationships at your age usually don't last long and aren't the real thing. You don't need that.

Answer 9

A girl at 13 years old without meeting a boy on sex basis is a virgin and is the happiness of God, therefore keep it up.
Don't ever think of be a lesbian because it is against nature.

Answer 10

You don't need a boy friend at the age of 13.

Stop listening to idiots and be who you are...don't worry about other people's opinions. Kids in general are nasty to each other. Forget about them. Curl up with a good book or something! You can worry the rest of your life about what the person next to you is thinking about you...but it won't help YOU.

Answer 11

you shouldnt have a boyfriend at 13 its too young you should wait until at least 15 or 16 because then you have some understanding of relationships (only basic but its a start). And as far as people thinking your a lesbian so what? the sooner you start to not care what people think about you and start to only go by how you feel about yourself the sooner that you will feel better about yourself and realize that other people just dont know wtf they are talking about.