I recently got out of a really hurtful relationship, and now I'm with my girlfriend of 4 months. I really care for her, but am a bit scared of taking our relationship to the next level for fear that she might just use me like my last girlriend. I can tell that she really wants our relationship to go futher, but I'm not ready to take that step. What should I do?
2006-06-28 06:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by skidouble1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
explain to her exactly what you wrote here. if she's the right girl for you, she'll understand.
2006-06-28 06:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriend she will understand if you honest with her. Tell her that you got really bad before and your dont so comfortable taking the next step right now. She probably be fine with that and she will give you time for the next step.
2006-06-28 13:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, you are not ready. Plain and simple. She should understand, if you've been hurt before. Time heals all wounds. Just don't let one bad relationship ruin what could be a good thing.
2006-06-28 14:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just explain to her what had happen and that you are not ready yet. She should understand. You need sometime to heal and just take your time with her.
2006-06-28 13:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let a new love pay for the troubles a previous love has made....love as is youve never been hurt....
2006-06-28 13:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by raven wants it... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋