When I see my parents (mom and step-dad) and I talk to them about my husband and I wanting a baby soon, she tells me the following:
That I won’t want to get up in the middle of the night with a baby.
That she knows when I have a baby I will wish I didn’t have one at 24 years old.
She rolls her eyes and says I should wait until I am 35 to have a child and maybe by then I won’t want one anymore.
She is afraid if I have children I might get frustrated with them and make their lives miserable.
She seems jealous of me. She had two children before she was 21 and got divorced at 24.
I have a college degree, I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for over a year, I have a good job, insurance, own a home that is almost paid off, and I have two brand new cars paid off. My husband and I love each other and want to start a family, why can’t she be happy for me and stop trying to ruin my dream of having a baby??!!
2006-06-28
07:44:51
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