I am talking to a friend of mine's man and we really like each other. Do u think i should continue this?

Question

Say but i really like him and he likes me alot but the girl is just around. My friends say i am wrong but how am i wrong and the boy wants the same which is to be in a relationship. We spend all day with each other and she knows nothing about us messing around she just thinks we are good friends. I think we are falling in love with each other. So what should I do stop talking to him or say **** the other girl. Send me your replys please. ASAP

But me and the girl aren't really friends she says she is my friend but i didn't say she was mine. I just started talking to her this year but i been talking to him for 2 years.

Everyone knows we mess around but her and now he doesn't even go with her anymore he tries to avoid her but i don't like the relationship cause it feels like she might think i stole her man but who cares she her sex must wasn't good enough cause i got that A1 if you don't know it is then it means that good.

Answer 1

if you want him then steal him. tell the other girl sorry bout ur bad luck but if you snooze you lose.

Answer 2

Well let me tell you like this if she is your friend the only thing you are wrong about is not telling her and that does not mean just you are wrong he is too. But also let me tell you this he could be playing you be careful he might just play you to get a little something if you know what I mean then run back to her so be careful then you lose him and your good friend. So let me tell how to deal with this make him make a decision today I hope you have not already gave him the panties cause if you did then stop it. I don't care how good it is make him break up with her cause if he won't then you just got played baby and if he will do that behind her back then you know you are next don't get mad at me I'm just keeping it real and like I said make him break up then you can be with him and you don't have to hide, cause he chose you and if she can't handle it then get your freak on. holla @ ya boi ([e-mail]) if you need anymore GAME baby be EZ

Answer 3

First of all, why is your nick named like that???? Just Curious !!
I think its wrong.
If you are not what your nickname is, then I would suggest that you step yourself into her shoes.
I'll help you. You love your boyfriend so much, that you trust him not to cheat on you. You give me as much freedom as he wants.
Although you dont get to spend the day with him, you are not paranoid. Why? Because you love him that much. You think you know him well enough, that you believe that he will not cheat you ffor your best friend. And then one fine day, he tells you. "Well, you know what, I think we should break up..." And you say " huh, Why honey?" And he says .." Well, I think I am in love with ----- " And you pine away until the next guy comes along.

Does'nt sound too good, does it?? Duh..

So heres what you will need to do. Talk to him and tell him to choose between you and her. And you do the same too.
Analyse what is good in him and what is bad in him. But first of all, think about the future together.
If he did this to her, dont you think he will do this to you, if and when a better girl comes along???

Do you honestly think you will live peacefully thinking about how you 'got' him!! What would you be thinking if he starts spending time with his other female friends?? Would you not feel the pinch inside??

Be honest to yourself, young lady. Be true to other people.
She would get over this, but you?? You are going to have to live with this for the length of your relationship.

God bless you

Answer 4

u r stupid no offense. if hes playing her while trying 2 get with u hes going 2 play u 2 at some point and then ull just wind up with a lot of regret. not 2 mention it could destroy ur friendship 2. everyone knows the golden rule: never date a best friends man. u should tell him if he really wants 2 b with u then he can break it off with her first, that way he doesnt get his cake and get 2 eat it 2. b honest and upfront about it 2 cause if u sneak around it reflects that u r a little $k@nk

Answer 5

If she was really your friend you would just tell her, most of the time when people get hurt it is not what happen it is that they feel like an blind dumb A-- that you and him were together and everyone knows but her. So just tell her that ya'll didn't mean for it to happen it just did and that the two of you really think that ya'll might be in love. And remind her that we don't pick who we fall in love with.

Answer 6

I was friends with the man I am now married to and spent a lot of time with him on a weekly basis due to our common volunteer interests. Then a friend of mine started dating him a while after I introduced them. Then he broke things off with her. A little while later, he told me he was interested in me. I told him that I wouldn't see him. Then I watched his behavior and talked with my other friend to be sure their relationship had really ended. Then I let him know that I was willing to see him since I knew that he wasn't doing anything dishonorable. Also, I didn't become intimate with him until after he married me.

Also, I can guarantee you that if you have been intimate with this man already, he's just going to cheat on you with someone else like you are letting him do with you right now. He is not being honorable, and he is going to end up hurting both you and your female friend. Don't let this man continue to disrespect both you and your friend.

Also, remember that what goes around comes around. If you don't repent now and apologize to your friend and end this affair, this will come back on you later in your life.

I pray that you love yourself enough not to let this man keep disrespecting you and your friend.

One thing that single women do not understand, which I plan to teach my daughters when they grow up, is that sleeping with a man doesn't just physically put him to sleep...it also puts him to sleep in his soul...it takes away all of his motivation to seek a true and lasting relationship with the person that was already intimate with him.

Some things in life have to be done in a certain sequence in order to work properly, like a combination lock. If the lock code is 12-22-13 and you try to dial it in as 13-12-22, the lock is not going to open. In the same way, that man's heart is not going to truly be open to you if the sequence is off: 1st committed & exclusive relationship, 2nd holy and legal matrimony, 3rd intimacy (body, soul, and spirit)...that's the right sequence for you to get all of him forever and not just his body for several minutes.

Answer 7

Why don't YOU try asking him to break up with the other girl? If he won't or has a reason then might as well just give it up. You might probably end up being used. If he really love you, he would breakup with his girlfriend and be with you. You should go watch this chinese movie, "It had to be you"...you might be in the same situation as the main girl in this movie...

Answer 8

Boys will take whatever they can get. If it werent you it would probably be someone else. Why are you doing that to your "friend"? I would beat that a** if you were my so called friend and you were messing with my man. You should know better. Just remember one thing. Karma is a beoytch. What goes around comes around so watch yourself

Answer 9

If this girl is really your friend then hell yes you are really wrong and grimey, but if she is not and this situation is all that you say it is then you and him both need to sit down and tell her what the deal is, if it's really lovely then why hide why let it stay a secret.

Answer 10

You call this girl your "friend". Obviously she's not or you wouldn't do this to her. You are just hurting everyone. Call it quits now. With my experence (sp), he is probably using you and will end up doing the same to you if he leaves her. And you will be freindless and boyless.

Answer 11

nevr do that to a friend ever friends stick around a lot longer than guys. and if he is still with her he dosnt like you that much. or else he is using u for a back up just in case they dont work out