Do you believe your first love to be the best love you have/will ever get? Why?
2006-06-28 06:58:29 · 39 answers · asked by 4eyed zombie 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't say this because I 'need experience' I've had enough of that, thank you.
I'm a little curious about how people of different sexes, races and religions feel about the matter.
2006-06-28 07:09:47 · update #1
Another note...DONT you dare tell me how I WILL FEEL at any point in my life. And don't tell me what I need to do about my love life.
This isn't about me and my loves (current or former) this is about YOUR OPINION on the matter.
2006-06-28 07:15:08 · update #2
No i do not believe that my first love is my best... i mean to others it might be...but some peoples first loves are hard to deal with and most of the time they barley injoy it cause they are so caught up in there "first love" that they can not see past how much they hurt inside cause they think that love is supposed to have it's ups and downs...but when most of your relationship is down falls then it really is not worth it cause who really wants to be sad and or upset all of the time...cause i don't kno about anybody else but i would love for my realrtionship to be a happy one...that's what makes beign in love so injoyable...
2006-06-28 07:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Q-T 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No Way! Lol I'm a a Christian and I have to say my "first loves" were little boys who had little or no exprience with what love is. It's experience that really counts. I like them to be my friend then let it grow or die into what it should be. I find out that's the best way to let a relationship go.I found out if enjoy the company, the laughs, or just their friendship in general its enough for me. But I haven't found love yet. Lol! You'll be surprised by the experience those relationships can give you.You'll find out what you like or don't like and you don't even have to be intimate with them. (I think that's what love is really about)If we're compatible. You don't want to just like anybody.
Did that make sense?
2006-06-28 07:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the best love is one that matures from initial attraction to trust and finally commitment that would only be broken by abuse or neglect. This type of love is hard to find and takes work to keep, but it's the best. And I'm hopeful always that I will mature and my life will only get better. Learn from the past and grow toward the future.
2006-06-28 07:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll feel that way until you find your next love.
You may have had the best first love ever, but there is also someone else out there just for you that will make your 1st love feeling disappear deep into your memories.
Keep your heart open, and don't focus on what was, focus on what will be.
2006-06-28 07:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe first love is the best love. They are the ones that usually break your heart first. Normally the first love is when you are in the teen years. At the time in my live I was not emotionally prepared for everything the it entailed. I never found my true love until I was 26.
2006-06-28 07:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree. Just because you have personally and emotionally never been hurt by anyone before, and therefore are not going to have trusting issues, or an emotional barrier keeping you from sharing feelings with this person. I'm still in love with my first love.
2006-06-28 07:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Maddi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not the best you will ever have. It seems the best now because you have nothing to compare it to...
But as you go through life, you grow, you become stronger, gain more experience, and you define your love. Never settle...
In my own experience, my last love was better than my first.
2006-06-28 07:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not exactly. I think that you will always remember your first love. But i dont think that will be the best you will have or ever get.. I 've better now than i did with my first love.. But i still think about him from time to time just because he was my first...
2006-06-28 07:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, in all likelihood, your first love is at an early age, when you haven't even started to become the person you will be...the best love you will ever have will come when you have grown and developed into the person you are while also finding someone to share that life with
2006-06-28 07:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't belive that. I love the man I am currently with. I have never in my life loved a man the way I love him. I trust him completly and I know he will never hurt me.I love this man all most as much as I love my childern. He is my heart and my soul.
2006-06-28 07:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋