Why do people assume that if there is a threesome going on that the man has forced the woman into it?

Question

Women are no longer as frigid and reserved as they used to be. We have learned that being sexual is ok and damn well fantastic. We can do what feels good to us without having to be coerced. We are also not making sexual decisions to save relationships either. This is based on the responses I'm getting to my last question. There are lots of people that are enjoying sharing with others and it isn't because there is anything lacking sexually. Don't be so closed minded. I would love to get an "educated" answer to this question. Not some dogmatic 1950's approach to acceptable relationship behavior.

Answer 1

I couldn't get what your question is, but let me just ask you something. Why do you think that all the women out there are like you? I personally know a lot decent and girls with better sense and knowladge then you most of all how did you even came to the decision that people might think that girls are forced to do such thing? I'd be glad if you let me know.

Answer 2

You know what, as women in this day and age we have come a very long way when it comes to being sexual. Before women never really "wanted" to do it- we "had" to do it. as growing up so many of us was told " do touch it " " do let anyone touch it " and just wait until you are out of college and married ( well that is middle 20s)- I really think if you are alway pushig you sexual feeling to the side you and easily lose the "want". Now as a women in my late 20s I have a whole other mindset, I would do only the things that make me happy , do it for my own self pleasure ( if that is what i wanted to do) I have never did the 3some thing and have no plans to but in 2006 women are not passive as long before - men don't have to push...

Answer 3

It's because most women don't ask questions like this on yahoo Q&A. Alot of women who are no longer fridid and reserved as you say... are STILL frigid and reserved!!!!!! Otherwise I'd be having threesomes. By the way... I'm on Long Island, where you at?

Answer 4

you are right women are doing what they want to do without a man telling but the threesome thing is a little out of my lead your feeding into the male fantasy for one and if you feel comfortable doing that then more power to but one thing you have to do and that is to be very careful bacause by you being in that world there are risk invoved so hopefully you stop doing that soon and settle down with someone who dont like threesomes they want you all to themselves that my dear is what you call a man get yourself toghether before it's too late sexually transmitted diseases are not jokes it's reality goodluck and be safe my beautiful queen dont ever use your body as a garbage can your body is your temple just anybody can't enter think about it.

Answer 5

I dont think that. But, it is still uncommon in today's society. Society has built a wall around sex, and alot is still taboo is many people's view. Perhaps one reason why people think the woman is "forced" into it, is because so many more men are willing to do a threesome, than women. Its not correct to assume the "forced" aspect, but it's an explanation.

Answer 6

Do what feels good. I enjoyed a number of threesomes with girlfriends in the past. It was a mutual decision in each case. Sadly, my wife totally disagrees with the thought so my days of fun are over.

Answer 7

Perhaps you should not tell people the details of your sex life. Threesomes are fine if that is what you are into, but its not anyone elses business.

If you still want to tell people, you could just explain that you are into recreational sex.

Even in the twenty first century, most people consider sex a two person activity because it is an expression of love.

Answer 8

I don't.....I think it has to be a mutual decision between responsible adults. There are alot of things that can happen from adding a person into a relationship, jealousness for one.

But if you are both in agreement and committed to each other and follow the rules.....it can end up successful and satisfying!

Answer 9

it's due to the past, most men spend years thinking of being in a threesome, on and off.. it part of who they are.. men want to have sex with every girl they see at one point or another in there life. but women want a relationship and be with one man at a time. this is a stereotype and it will take time for it to go away or change.

Answer 10

i dont really care if people think a woman is forced into doing a threesome really...i think that envy has a little bit to do with it because ur right, women are less frigid and reserved.