i really like him as a matter of fact i love him and never told him how i feel i just always say that i care a lot for him. today i gave him a call and he doesn't even pick up from myy number but we use to spend everyday together morning noon and night how could someone not want you anymore someone please help me bc i cant get over him just that fast.
2006-06-28 07:07:59 · 27 answers · asked by lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should talk to him directly, he might be suffering from something that you don't know, he might need your help. Make sure he loved you as much as you say you loved him, make sure that the time you send together wasn't just time pass, if all is ok then ask him out and get married. Share his feelings, and share his problems, and you can expect him to share your feelings and problems and your life.
2006-06-28 07:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a teenager well i am too. I just got out of a 7 month relationship with the only guy i really loved. After about 3 months we hadnt said i love you and i finally told him how i feel about him. He said he loved me too. In the end we couldnt stay together because he was a big lier and didnt really love me at all. I always wished now that i could go back and change everything and just dump him after 3 months. Be careful girl if hes ignoring your phone calls now maybe he doesnt want to be with you. 3 months isnt a very long time and there is always other guys. Yes i know you said you cant get over him but i promise you that you will. It took me a month to get over my ex. If you would like to chat im me at candymm06@yahoo.com Good Luck!
2006-06-28 07:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he could think that your the type that falls to fast for a guy like him. He is probably used to it. And he will only call you when he is alone, has nothing better to do. For you will be there for him, while he is busy doing other things with his life. Getting over someone takes time and effort in forgetting about them. The best way is to ignore them completely. No contact. I know I have been there. Otherwise he will find out what it is like to lose something he did not know he had.
2006-06-28 07:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Allen the Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to save the relationship you might want to ask him is he invovle with any one. Cause in most cases like this, plus the ones i've experience it's likely that it's was just an thing and it's over. The time you and him was together was also the time him and the other girlor boy wasn't or going through some things. You don't need him, leave him alone, love hurts, and you need to get over it. Move on to something bigger and better.
2006-06-28 07:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Sug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ai. No. you know what, we will never understand guys! will we? I was in The same situation - exactly a week ago. my boyfriend did the same. I followed my 6th sense! I busted him that's he's been lying and cheating. and we've been together for 3/4 months. and today, I'm still hurt, so hurt. but i don't want to carry along with a relationship and always guess or wonder 'why is he not answering' or 'what did i do now'? etc
2006-06-28 07:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by blommekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. He obviously doesn't appreciate you. I learned this lesson the hard way. I married a man who treated me that way, because I thought he would change. He never did and after two kids and a few years of marraige I finally got smart and divorced him. I found a loving man and married him, and after 17 years of marriage, I'm very happy. Don't waste time on a loser-your perfect mate is out there looking for you! Good luck!
2006-06-28 07:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by bluetopaz1121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just make urself busy in some work,these people just dont deserve our love u will get someone who understand u very nicely.but B4 that just talk with him 4 last time if the problem can be sorted off ok bye
2006-06-28 07:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by amna k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him,if you been dating for 3 months,and he doesn't care about you,then simply dump him. Or,maybe he just wants some space. Are you high maintence? If,you are probely to much to handle for 3 months straight.
2006-06-28 07:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably made the wrong move too fast. You're not dumb, you already know that a man doesn't want anybody who needs him. If you back off, he'll come back around. Stay strong.
2006-06-28 07:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i know how you feel cause the same thing happened to me but mines only lasted 2 weeks well i count it a becasue for 2 weeks i walked home with him then out of no where i never saw him. ive tried callin but he never answered and then i just stop trying then a month later he calls well not him his cusion calls telling me that my boyfriend wants to see other peolpe so he was breaking up with me and i felt so bad cause i dont even know wat i did and now i still liek him do end up like me heart broken and still liking the guy try talkin to him work it out or youll end up liek me its really bad WORK IT OUT!
2006-06-28 07:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by i love him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋