we were both young going in this relationship and both vulnerable, im surprised it lasted as long as it did when i think about how it began. we were inseperable for nearly 3 years, nearly everyday, completely in love, well, seemingly to me. last friday she went to one of her female friends' bday party and didnt invite me or make mention that she wanted me with her. the first time in 3 years she didnt want me to be with her. i asked the next day whats going on, she says she feels that we are too serious and that she needs her own time to grow up and find what she really wants out of life. she says she feels to dependant upon me.
i agreed with everything, who am i to try and talk her out of her natural feelings? as much as it hurts to do so i had to let go and give her the space she needs. this was a week ago and im torn up over it, after 3 years the split didnt seem to affect her like it did to me. i cant eat, sleep, im a walking "break-up cliche".. i dont have the energy to move on
2006-06-28 07:03:05 · 5 answers · asked by knucklehed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your young, you both need to experience dating other people.
Give yourself some time to get use to not being with her, but hang out with your buddies. Start dating again, you might be surprised how happy you'll be.
You don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you.
She's not worth crying over. Stand tall, smile, move on, be happy and be sure she knows how happy you are.
Good luck-but you don't need it, you'll be fine.
2006-06-28 07:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her dude, stick a fork in your relationship, usually a "break" means a break from you to check out and see if the grass is greener on the other side. Just don't whine, beg, plead, no phone calls trying to talk her back into seeing you again, NOTHING, if you make contact with her and profess your love for her or beg her to take you back, you're just going to drive her away cause you're gonna sound like a wuss. I know its gonna be hard to do, but leave her alone for now, give her a call in like a month or so and see if you can hang out, and see how things go from there.
2006-06-28 07:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by The Mullet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i hate to break it to you, but some girls can change their mind like that. i know a few and they seem to like you A LOT, and then all of a sudden they just decide it's time to move on. what i'd say is that if she doesn't want to be with you, then isn't worth being with. learn what ever you can from this experience. and cherish all the fun times you guys had together! hope this helps you some.
2006-06-28 07:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing. Although mine was that they had interest in somebody else and wanted to test the waters. I'm not saying that's what is happening, but maybe she wants to see what else is out there. Crummy way to go about it tho. Sorry
2006-06-28 07:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by tmark0320 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i C LOVE! Love is ALL! i C she will get a B/F soon! she wants ***! she wants 1 who will suck her clit!
smileS!
Yeshua!
2006-06-28 07:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by YESHUA Y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋