Family & Relationships - 15 June 2006

I have been married for almost two years now. My husband and I dated for 5 years (on & off) before getting married.. Once, when we were broken up, I dated this guy and became really into him.. almost in love or something for the short time we dated. We never went all the way but got VERY close a several times.......... Well, it's been about 3 years since I have seen him.. Why do I still think about him? He was the best partner at forplaying that I ever had!!!!!!!

Is it wrong to fantasize about him? I have never cheated on my husband and do not intend to either.. I just want to know why I think about him so often.

2006-06-15 10:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by just me000 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Love life or money

2006-06-15 10:25:06 · 4 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Friends

She has thoughts about having sex with other women and she had once before we were together. I think sex should be only for both of us and not shared with either sexes whether its a man or a woman.Although being with a woman herself is a less degree of cheating. GOD Im confused.

2006-06-15 10:24:52 · 17 answers · asked by LighterDeep 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-15 10:24:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last monday i wrote a letter to my guy friend telling him i like him. i do feel stupid for had wrote a letter at may age , and being in college. i have call him 2 times to talk to him about the letter and explain my self. but he wont answer the phone anymore since i gave him the letter. i dont know why his acting like this, is not like i disrespected him in the letter or anything like that. all i did was be honest telling him that i have feelings for him and that if he did not have feeling for me, then we could just keep being friends. i really tought he like me as well because he would flirt with me, open the door. help me out with math. when i told him how many gf have u had he said 4 and 1/2 and i was the 1/2 then he said j/k. but he would make i guess remarks like that , then he would say j/k. we got along well had fun and i dont understand why his being like this, why his not talking to me his being unfare.

2006-06-15 10:24:29 · 3 answers · asked by Josie 1 in Singles & Dating

what makes a woman HOT ???

2006-06-15 10:24:14 · 6 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

i still kind of like her, and i dont want her to hate me. the problem is her friends--they always call me and want to do stuff when i dont. plus im starting to think that shes too good for me............what do i do??

2006-06-15 10:23:57 · 14 answers · asked by Sean 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-15 10:23:23 · 11 answers · asked by NiNa 1 in Singles & Dating

hate their dad so much??!!!

2006-06-15 10:23:09 · 10 answers · asked by sk8ter_geek 3 in Family

2006-06-15 10:22:47 · 3 answers · asked by crazytexasgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

before yall start trippin I am not a racist. In fact I like white men. I would like to find a good one to day, only because I am physically attracted to them. I have heard several different assumptions about this issue. I know that you can't speak for everyone but I would just like to here from some of the white men. Please be respectful.

2006-06-15 10:22:33 · 7 answers · asked by mastapes21 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-15 10:22:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are both married and I know it is wrong, but he is all I can think about. Neither of us has ever said or done anything to indicate anything more than friends. I love the way I feel when I am around him and I fantasize of simply being in his arms. I want him to hold me and tell me that I am safe and okay. I cannot get him out of my mind. I see him several times a week and we spend NO time alone. I feel like a good person when I am with him even though it is not good to feel the way I do about him. It is storming out right now and what I really want is to sit on the floor with his arms tightly around me for protection. How can I make myself feel this way about my husband?

2006-06-15 10:21:50 · 9 answers · asked by crazytexasgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this special person for just a month. I am aware that this person has a girlfriend for 2years already and will be coming back in a few days now...Should i still stay w/ this person and continue our secret affair, or should i let go...We do love each other, but we had this love at the wrong time.

2006-06-15 10:19:54 · 15 answers · asked by brat_gurl6 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-15 10:19:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married to an alcoholic, abusive man, he left me 11 months ago. In walks my ideal man, W, he totally respects me, loves me for my brain, etc. We don't have sex. Being around him makes me feel good about myself again. I have newfound confidence! I told my husband that I wanted a divorce, he asked me to give him just one more chance, he sweet talked me and I agreed to give him that chance. I told W what happened in my convo with my husband. He was very sad because he believed that I was finally free of my husband. I told him that it is only a matter of time before my husband hit me again and then it would be ALL over. I was sad, but it would be wrong to not give him this last opportunity. I asked him if he would wait for me and he agreed. We are not bf, gf. I tolded him that we couldn't date until after I'm divorced. A couple of days later, i saw W again and realized that I had made a stupid choice! W agreed to give me another chance. Now he's avoiding me. Help!

2006-06-15 10:18:46 · 15 answers · asked by davidswiphey 1 in Singles & Dating

i was looking through her phone because i was about to buy the same razor V3c from the same carrier so i was checking out all the screens and i noticed the call... not sure what to think of it, but it's like this guy friend who i think likes her from work, but she is the one who called him. I dunno, I hate to be a jealous pain.. but it bugs me what do you think?

2006-06-15 10:16:56 · 34 answers · asked by stratocastinator 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-15 10:16:39 · 19 answers · asked by crazytexasgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need a good man any men can contact me.

2006-06-15 10:16:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-15 10:16:05 · 11 answers · asked by blah blah blah 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

because he has being without sex for a while with someone, even though he masturbate?

2006-06-15 10:15:44 · 25 answers · asked by Jerome 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in the Navy and is getting stationed far away. He wants to get married but I don't know if the military lifestyle is right for me. Do you move a lot and is it hard being away from each other for long times at sea?

2006-06-15 10:14:57 · 9 answers · asked by Caitlin B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i mean not cheating on him but you secretly have feeliingsw for him.. what do you do... HELP

2006-06-15 10:14:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv been married for 6 yrs now last year left my family on business, came back 8 mos later, my husband was able to get a visa to travel with me overseas, right before we left for america he found out that another girl was pregnant with his child( withheld info from me) until about 3 days ago i found out that this girl had a boy by him, should i stay or should i leave he said it was a mistake he was only with her 1 time because i left him for so long, and promises never to do it again he says he loves me and poeple make mistake, but the fact still remains there is a baby involved although the child and its mother are in jamaica and we are here in america, he also gave her money for an abortion and she didnt get one, when she asked for the money to get it,, do you think he will contact them behind my back, even though he cant leave america for 5 yrs while he is filling for permanent residency? also he doesnt know if the child is his, what should i do, this gurl is a ho,

2006-06-15 10:14:45 · 6 answers · asked by jayrok027 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-15 10:13:55 · 20 answers · asked by cherry♥blossoms 3 in Singles & Dating

n/a

2006-06-15 10:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he likes me too, but all of a sudden i feel scared to continue. should i stick to my guts and end us or keep steady! please, help me!

2006-06-15 10:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by yorkielove 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-15 10:13:10 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy Mek 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-15 10:12:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been married for a while. five to be exact.....i donrt think i am happily married though......he has not done a thing to me...its just that i am not me. i tried...but i wonder weather i should linger on since we have a year old son or pack up and call it quits!

2006-06-15 10:12:08 · 30 answers · asked by goddess_ahalya 2 in Marriage & Divorce