i like this guy and he likes me too, but all of a sudden i feel scared to continue. should i stick to my guts and end us or keep steady! please, help me!
2006-06-15 10:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by yorkielove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should figure out what is making you so scared about the relationship. Then you should talk to him and let him know how you feel. Maybe he can help you understand and be more secure or he can give you some space to really decide what you want.
2006-06-15 10:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I beleive you should always give things a chance. I started dating this guy and I didn't think it would turn out to be anything more than a heartbreak but we've been dating a year and I love him. If you make the decision not to try you could be missing out on something really special. Stick to ur gut sweetie.
2006-06-15 17:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to your gut. But, you can continue with the relationship. Be cautious, don't get to close to fast. Doesn't mean you have to end it! Not everything has a yes and no answer. I am thinking you don't know what your gut is telling you, so, proceed slowly :)
2006-06-15 17:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by klatour2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain to him how I feel. If he really likes you he will understand. I would slow down a bit like go back to the basic dating. If he doesn't understand then maybe you are right aand should let him go. Everyone is afraid of falling in love. You will never know unless you take the chance. If you let go you might of missed your chance at Mr. Right.
2006-06-15 17:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by tinytracy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with your heart. DOn't give up on a potentially good guy for no reason. Give it a shot... see what happens. Unless you have reason to believe that he is shady... dont' be scared. live a little.
2006-06-15 17:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by its still me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people always get scared. it's probably because you are afraid to get hurt...it will be fine. it happened to me and 4 years later engaged!
2006-06-15 17:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT INSTINCT. THE CREATOR GAVE US THIS ABILITY AND YOU SHOULD STICK WITH WHAT YOU ALREADY KNOW.
2006-06-15 17:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right.
The worst thing is to lead him on. So talk to him.
2006-06-15 17:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by blondieinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural to feel scared. i think you should do what you think is right. and whats right is up to you.
2006-06-15 17:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by draxxus89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what's right for you, but first... talk to him.
2006-06-15 17:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋