i still kind of like her, and i dont want her to hate me. the problem is her friends--they always call me and want to do stuff when i dont. plus im starting to think that shes too good for me............what do i do??
2006-06-15 10:23:57 · 14 answers · asked by Sean 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me rephrase..... i hate her friends but her friends still want to hang out with me
2006-06-15 10:51:10 · update #1
No, never break up with someone because you think they are too good for you, if that were the case theyd telly ou, thats unfair to them. And it isnt fair to her for you to let her friends push you away, just tell her how her friends are making you feel.
2006-06-15 10:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend went through a similar situation in the past and has since told me about it. I dont know you in particular but you should never think that someone is too good for you. Believe in yourself and that the person is with you for a reason. Now it may end because of the friendship scenario if she feels that she cant have her friends and you at the same time...so try and see if you can go out when you dont want to just once or twice to compromise. A relationship is a two way street, help her see that you can be there with her alone and with her friends.
best of luck.
2006-06-15 17:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never break up with someone because of their friends. why is it that you say you're too good for her? she might just be all that you've ever dreamed of and you're slightly intimidated. but considering that you say you kind of like her, you need to spend one on one time with her and re-evaluate your feelings, the annoyance of her friends may be what is making you not like her anymore. after the two of you get back on good terms tell her in a nice way that her friends should stop calling you. the truth is the friends are proballycrushing on you and want to hear your voice or just do anything with you, tell your girl that you'd ratherspend time alone cuddling while watching a movie or going out to eat. GOODLUCK!
2006-06-15 17:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by lovemeforever229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's perhaps the most compelling reason, I've ever heard for breaking up: Her friends always call you and want you to do stuff when you don't.
And she's too good for you!
Well how about this? How about you tell her friends to TAKE A HIKE... and how about... improving YOURSELF... to be worthy of such a lovely creature?
Or... do this... break up with her... and leave her to someone who has a clue. Meanwhile take up with some LOSER GIRL, who isn't too good for you... and listen to her friends too!
Is it just me? Or is this the most clueless person you've ever tried to help?
2006-06-15 17:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one first and foremost. GET THE TOO GOOD THOUGHT OUT OF YOUR HEAD! No one person is either too good, or not good enough.
Don't break up dude. Why are you doing things with her friends and not her?
2006-06-15 17:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like her, then don´t break up. Talk with her about the problem you have with her friends.
2006-06-15 17:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mónica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hold on to someone you dont want to be with in that way. be honest it may hurt for a while but this is life it will happen more than once in yr life.
2006-06-15 17:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh talk to her. I mean obviously she likes u , lord knows she isnt fond of spending time with someone she doesnt like. its a relationship, suck it up, be a man and COMMUNICATE your issues with her.
2006-06-15 17:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by kamni07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are her friends calling you anyway?
2006-06-15 17:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First start with NOT being a loser... The rest will come...
2006-06-15 17:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by _Lilith_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋