We are both married and I know it is wrong, but he is all I can think about. Neither of us has ever said or done anything to indicate anything more than friends. I love the way I feel when I am around him and I fantasize of simply being in his arms. I want him to hold me and tell me that I am safe and okay. I cannot get him out of my mind. I see him several times a week and we spend NO time alone. I feel like a good person when I am with him even though it is not good to feel the way I do about him. It is storming out right now and what I really want is to sit on the floor with his arms tightly around me for protection. How can I make myself feel this way about my husband?
2006-06-15 10:21:50 · 9 answers · asked by crazytexasgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to stay away from him!!
2006-06-15 10:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by whoanelly00 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What does you husband treat you like. Is he good to you. Either way I think you should get some counseling for your marriage sake. You don't want to leave your husband you just want the best of both worlds. Don't betray your vows. Maybe you should spend less time with this guy. And a lot more time with your husband. Don't tell your husband that you want another guy that will make it worse, just try to fall in love with him all over again. Remember why you married him in the first place. Go somewhere with him do something special. Just do it fast before you do something you regret! Good luck.
2006-06-15 17:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by mini_may04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this same effect on most women... it's a curse, so I feel your pain. But here's a thought... when with hubby, pretend you're with me... er, him.
Remember, the grass isn't always greener on the other side, so think it through well, however - life is too short to be unhappy.
But know this, you could be engineering a major life upheaval... sometimes it's for the good.
2006-06-15 17:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by lovestocook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't love your husband
but that man fills the same way like you
look out you may lose a husband and a friend
make light in this situation
2006-06-15 17:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by qwq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOure a cheater straight up!!! Not even worth the time to help you think about ur husband that way.
2006-06-15 17:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mike B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband to do what you want this guy to do. You don't know if it would be like that, you are living in a fantasy. Go talk to your husband and have him be what you want.
2006-06-15 17:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in a situation that many find themselves, unfortunately, only you can get out of it and i can't tell you how. Good luck.
2006-06-15 17:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know sweetie sounds like you are in a bad position.
2006-06-15 17:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR in TROUBLE
2006-06-15 17:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by newillshirley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋