I've been with this special person for just a month. I am aware that this person has a girlfriend for 2years already and will be coming back in a few days now...Should i still stay w/ this person and continue our secret affair, or should i let go...We do love each other, but we had this love at the wrong time.
2006-06-15 10:19:54 · 15 answers · asked by brat_gurl6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is only your call...
2006-06-15 10:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if you two love each other then why does he still have a girlfriend?Seems very fishy to me.Sounds as if he wants the best of both worlds.He keeps his other girlfriend by lying to hear keeping her in the dark about you,then he has you and you know of his other girlfriend ,but he tells you he loves you so you stay hanging on him.my advice tell him how much you love him and you will not share cause love doesn't share and if he loves you like he says then he needs to break it off with the girlfriend,so you to can be tog and happy.If he makes excuses or doesn't really like that idea .....girl you need to give him the boot!Cause your about to be the next contestant on the Jerry springer show.
2006-06-15 10:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by wildblonde_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go. Walk away, quickly. Tell him that you love him but if you and he are to be together, it has to be in a time when that relationship is appropriate. If he loves you, maybe he'll end the relationship with the other girl. If not, better to get out now that you've only invested one month.
2006-06-15 10:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with him if he has a gf? I understand it b/c you have no control over who u are attracted to... but what if it was u he was dating for 2 yrs? u and the girl need to end it... although i take it she doesn't know. He doesn't deserve to be with someone like u b/c u seem like ur looking for a true love... someone that can be FAITHFUL to u...and it's not him!
2006-06-15 10:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by britt b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...well i mean think would you want a guy to do that to you....i mean if you were going out with a guy for two years how would you feel if you found out he is with some one else if he cared about you or ne thing then he wouldn't be with that person he would be with you and you only all you are is a fling....but you can only make the choice your self
2006-06-15 10:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by hotchick_85_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should more than likely let go because in the long run some one is going to get hurt and thats not worth it just see how things go with him and that girl and let him know later on if something happens then you and him can be!! remember if it is meant to be then it will be!!i promise!!!
2006-06-15 10:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by chriss_babys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like being the other woman who will always be treated second best., then go for it. I SUSPECT THAT IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT.
By the way...How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot?
2006-06-15 10:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it's hard, but it's truly in ur best interests if u left him. I don't think ur a bad person, but it is wrong to b screwing another girl's man
2006-06-15 10:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, remain yourself, and see what 'this special person' does.
Seems that's the one to make the decision. You may not need to.
2006-06-15 10:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him to give the other one up. He will if he truly loves you, trust me I've been there
2006-06-15 10:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by CaCa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends whether or not he will choose you or his long term girl friend. Why do you want to share anyway?
2006-06-15 10:25:31 · answer #11 · answered by Maggie McG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋