She has thoughts about having sex with other women and she had once before we were together. I think sex should be only for both of us and not shared with either sexes whether its a man or a woman.Although being with a woman herself is a less degree of cheating. GOD Im confused.
2006-06-15 10:24:52 · 17 answers · asked by LighterDeep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it would be considered cheating. BIG TIME!
2006-06-15 10:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bobbie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The definition of cheating is whatever the two in the relationship define it to be. For instance, if a guy doesn't care if his bisexual gf/wife sleeps with women, then girl-girl affairs aren't cheating. However, since you define sex to be something shared only between the two of you... yes, it's cheating. It bothers you. You don't like it, so it's cheating. (And apparently she knew how you felt, or she wouldn't have hidden it from you.)
2006-06-15 10:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by BeenThere69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's still cheating. She's still exposing herself to potential STD's she could pass along to you. Whether you know about it or not, it's still cheating. When you call someone your boyfriend or girlfriend, you're saying you're exclusive to each other and monogamous. Guy or girl, if she's getting it on with either one and it's not you she's getting it on with, cheater, cheater, cheater!
2006-06-15 10:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'd just be happy. She's not your wife, so have fun, I say. I mean, if you think she's a lesbian, that could be a bummer, but if she wants you to join in or watch, wow, a dream fulfilled. Dude, take one for the team, us married guys are just envious. Put down the bible for a minute, would ya?
2006-06-15 10:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating. Sex is sex. So what if they have the same body parts ??
2006-06-15 10:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one is with another while exclusively WITH you, yes that's cheating.
If it's BEFORE you, obviously that is NOT cheating.
If one THINKS of being with another while with you, I dont see that as cheating. But I wouldnt trust or want to be with that person.
Just one opinion of the many you'll receive. :)
2006-06-15 10:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's still cheating maybe you should worry about the fact that she might not be into men but into women lesbian so yes it's cheating
2006-06-15 10:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. cheating occurs the moment your girlfriend becomes intimate with another person. regardless of gender.
2006-06-15 10:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by squares 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think so it's still another person she had sex with. Male or Female she had sex with another person.
2006-06-15 10:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by ray r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating. giving another person no matter their sex something whether it be attention, physical attention, flirting, etc... that rightfully belongs to your partner is cheating. period
2006-06-15 10:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by its still me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋