Family & Relationships - 13 June 2006

About a week ago my lover moved back into his dads new apartment. Being only 18, I knew this was going to happen because he wanted to spend so much time at daddy's house anyway. After seven months I feel lonely without him. We see each other 3 times a week, but he also continues to use meth and will go where it is. Daddy is only enabling his use by not setting rules of how long he can be away from home. I use to use with him, but I let him know I was quitting - it just isn't fun anymore for me. Unfortunately, that is when he feels he can have sex more comfortably (bi) - after banging him for 7 months, I woke up one day and felt I was a meth ho for him and vice-versa. I know I'm better then that - the sex has stopped - I miss it, but I want no more meth and he is the best I've had. What to do?

2006-06-13 02:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by G.. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just want to say thanx to everyone for their feedback. Which made me realize that it's not that big of a deal and we really shouldn't let small things like upset or drive us crazy that much! Specially when you know that your significant other is a Great person who loves you and would do anything for you. And i know that i really do have that! Bottom line no one i perfect (specially not me), so let's not allow small things like that to ruin our days.

2006-06-13 02:14:43 · 3 answers · asked by lapao84 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just want to say thanx to everyone for their feedback. Which made me realize that it's not that big of a deal and we really shouldn't let small things like upset or drive us crazy that much! Specially when you know that your significant other is a Great person who loves you and would do anything for you. And i know that i really do have that! Bottom line no one i perfect (specially not me), so let's not allow small things like that to ruin our days.

2006-06-13 02:14:33 · 3 answers · asked by lapao84 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why are people so rude, downgrading and judgemental of others when they ask questions on this site?


Serious answers only, please.

2006-06-13 02:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by tab42104 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for about two and a half years now. My parents despise him, my friends hate him, and everyone knows we are not right for each other. I do love him, but he isn't what I want anymore. I have tried to break up with him many times, but he calls me constantly, and my house, or he'll show up at my house crying. He talks about suicide and how he can't live without me. One time he followed me and drove in the lane of oncoming traffic...I need advice on how to get him OUT of my life for good...any suggestions?

2006-06-13 02:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by Kimmy 3 in Singles & Dating

well, I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now and have been madly in love. Just recently I found out that in the first year of dating cheated on me and lied when I questioned him. He actually lied to me a lot about the whole situation he kept on creating new lies everytime I would find out a little bit of what happened. The problem is that he is jealous of other guys that are around me and is afraid that I will cheat on him. I do get a lot of attention from men but would never do anything. Should I end this relationship? or will he be true to me and stop worrying about me with other men? I mean do you think that he will cheat on me again? the thing is that when my friends found out her cheated on me the were honestly in shock, because when my boyfriend is around me he acts as if there is no other girl in the world. I told him to get out when hw first finally told me and that I never wanted to see him again, but he got really upset and I did let him back. Was that a good thing?

2006-06-13 02:11:58 · 19 answers · asked by Ashlee 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a great opportunity to join my life with a nice man (create a happy family), meanwhile, I want to obtain a higher education and career. What should I do?

2006-06-13 02:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by Minnie_2006 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how much is a reasonable amount to spend on a engagement ring i know money shouldn't matter if you are in love and its not about the money they have spent on the ring but how much is too much and how much is too little

2006-06-13 02:11:10 · 34 answers · asked by red lyn 4 in Weddings

We have been together 11 years, and slowly all the romance has gone. If I say any thing, he just says we are past all that now.

2006-06-13 02:10:58 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-13 02:08:43 · 35 answers · asked by nannacrocodiles 3 in Family

My older son is mature for 10 while my younger son is immature for 8. It’s a challenge to parent them differently.

2006-06-13 02:07:48 · 7 answers · asked by Carlos M 1 in Family

People either tease you or don't hang with you for being a virgin. I'm proud to be a virgin because i want my first time to be unsinful! I just wish ppl would respect me for savin myself. It doesn't matter to me like it does other ppl. Does sex really matter?

2006-06-13 02:07:29 · 29 answers · asked by omarigirl91 2 in Singles & Dating

im confused

2006-06-13 02:05:49 · 17 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you like to make your girl feel good when she's sad or deprested or sick?

2006-06-13 02:04:26 · 19 answers · asked by cutie pie 2 in Singles & Dating

We havent been together very long, and i dont know whether i want to sleep with him yet as I'm still a virgin and I want to be completely in love before i have sex.
But he keeps telling me he loves me and he thinks we're ready and i'm finding it really hard to tell him that I dont feel the same quite yet.....

2006-06-13 02:04:19 · 21 answers · asked by oh_gosh_anna 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a answer because im so confused of wat i should do ,help me please!!!!!!!!

2006-06-13 02:03:46 · 14 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

Woud u prefer sex before marriage or would u like to save ur virgin knot for ur wedding night??
Or if u already had sex, do u now wish u had not had sex b4 marriage n saved it for ur spouse?
Be honest!

2006-06-13 02:03:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this man in my life, when we first met he was seperated, now he is back with his girlfriend. But wants to continue seeing me on the side. He knows that I love him and want him to get out of his current situation. Says that he doesn't want to hurt her and he has alot of time and money invested. 8 yrs.and a house. I might add that he is a really great man and this is out of character for him. (cheating)
I don't know what to make of this.

2006-06-13 02:02:47 · 18 answers · asked by smurfette 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what things do you think are natural to argue about?

2006-06-13 02:02:14 · 6 answers · asked by sweets 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-13 02:02:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-13 02:01:56 · 5 answers · asked by Sage_Learner 3 in Singles & Dating

is it ok to leave and be alone with 3 kids are there things out there i can do to get the help? i just want to feel better about myself and for my kids who are still young..thanks

2006-06-13 02:01:46 · 16 answers · asked by ellowyn75 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-13 02:00:02 · 13 answers · asked by ledfootmama 1 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing a man who is 21 years older than me until about 6 months ago. We split up due my depression and he wouldn't stop talking, and I mean incessantly!!! Anyway, 6 months later, I still can't stop thinking about him.I think there's a lot of unfinished business. I think he felt slightly threatened by the age gap and that I have a lot of male attention (though I don't play on it, and try to make him jealous- in fact I was always reassuring him)
He phoned me for the first time in ages yesterday because we both had exam (different college) and he wanted to see how it had gone...Should I get back in contact with him, even if it is as friends?

2006-06-13 01:59:41 · 7 answers · asked by anna21 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had a lot of chances to have sex ok but i didn't. what is the age i should start doing it? and if i want to.....
some times i really wanna....... plz tell me what age?
cuz my girl friend is ready to do it and wanna do it. so?

2006-06-13 01:59:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for four months. I care for him but am not ready to tell him I love him.

2006-06-13 01:58:47 · 15 answers · asked by Kristin R 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl a while back, but due to some unique circumstances I've been forced to wait for this girl for over a year. And I'm fine with that because she's worth it. In order to make waiting easier, I feel the need to always talk to her and communicate. She has opposite feelings regarding this, she gets frustrated by talking because she can't have what she wants so it's easier for her not to talk as much. She described it as, if she gave up chocolate for lent she woudln't want someone dangling chocolate in front of her face the whole time. I'm just trying to be empathetic for this and understand and I can't completely. I just want to know if these feelings she's having and her way of approaching this is normal.

2006-06-13 01:55:35 · 16 answers · asked by Maestro 5 in Singles & Dating

What about married porn stars...Do their husbands/wives get jelus? i know jelus is spelt wrong

2006-06-13 01:55:04 · 19 answers · asked by Jammy Dodgers 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-13 01:54:17 · 9 answers · asked by belladonna_in_town 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend, her husband and their 2 daughters came for a visit. They traveled 180 miles, spent a total of 3 days, didn't supply any of their own food, personal needs items, etc. .He was drinking heavy .And they were constantly fighting and argueing, and he got so drunk he was beligerent blaming his alcohol problem on his 11 year old step daughter. I took 3 days of this before I gave him the choice of no drinking in my home or leave. He got real nasty and started cursing at me so I told him I was calling the police to ask him to leave, they left and went home but left the oldest child with me for 2 weeks,because she wanted to stay, should I call her real father and tell him how his child is forced to live or leave it alone? I'm half tempted to call child protective services on them I saw things I did not like. Cruel treatment, emotional abuse and physical neglect....I could use some advice....

2006-06-13 01:54:06 · 7 answers · asked by shellkate1244 4 in Friends