I've had a lot of chances to have sex ok but i didn't. what is the age i should start doing it? and if i want to.....
some times i really wanna....... plz tell me what age?
cuz my girl friend is ready to do it and wanna do it. so?
2006-06-13 01:59:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 14 and a boy.so?
2006-06-13 02:13:38 · update #1
wow
well im 16.... i know there are constantly urges
but for guys it a different story
cause we dont have to worry - most of the time about the consequences.
trust me 14 is too young a age
wait until at least 17 or 18 hour be an evan better age
i konw its hard..... this girl i really like talks to me about that kind of stuff - but we say we're kidding.....its too young a age
go to any parent and as them "when was your first time"
some will rarley say 15 or 16 but most of them say early 20's late teens
trust me
WAIT!!
2006-06-13 02:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have certain moral values that have prevented you thus far from participating? Sex is overrated. So many women have contracted the HIV virus and many have full blown AIDS. This is not some statistic that says males and women, but instead it says women - so you have to figure. In losing your virginity, how smart are "YOU" going to approach her? Because the way you begin a sexual relationship is how it will continue. If I were you, I'd make it a point (just in case she cheats - and they do, bet) you will take no risks to your life.
Now, as for the time, the time is when you are ready for the responsibilities that come with the act. Are you prepared to plan in advance using birth control devices? Never trust a woman to provide that type of security, there are too many women trying to trap men with babies. A condom with protect you from babies and AIDS, don't be fooled about it not feeling right. If that is the case, you should start masturbating now with a condom on until you get used to it and it doesn't feel strange. Your armor against promiscuous and or scheming girls is a condom. If you don't use one then you're taking your life in your own hands. There is also Herpes. Many women also have that and it is also incurable, with several nasty pustules all over the head and base of your penis, errupting every 3-4 months, for the rest of your life. Think seriously about a condom.
If you're just determined that there is no need, check out her family, know that this is the gene pool you'll be swimming in unprotected, the traits, both physical and mental, will be the traits you'll be combining to create your first born. These are the things you consider to decide if you're ready.
2006-06-13 09:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look --- Your body rather you be male or female should mean more to you then just giving it to someone. The reason sex means so little to so many is because we give it away. Sex should be between two people who fully understand each other and are willing to seek a future out with each other. Peer pressure is so hard this I know. everyone is doing it but me. But look there are so many who talk alot. Your body is your treasure and should be and it should only be given to someone who has earned it. Masturbation as you know is how we satisfy our urges when a partner isnt there and thats cool. Give your body to someone you truely love not just someone you like a whole lot. let them earn your trust your heart your total respect.
Dont rush it, I promise you will know when it is right and who is right. until then keep it to yourself and respect your treasure.
2006-06-13 09:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex when you are married. It's what God wants us to do. Even if you don't want to do what God wants you to do, wait until you are married for other reasons. Don't you want your wife to be your first? Who knows what could happen in the future? You definitely don't want to have a child now. Don't do it until you can support a baby, because no form of birth control is 100% foolproof. Also, you cut your chances of getting an STD by waiting until you are married. You cut them completely out of the picture if she has waited for you, too. Besides, what better expression of total devotion is there than to wait for each other? I hope you will make the right decision.
2006-06-13 09:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As i said to most people who asked this question, wait until you are at an age were you are mature enought to handle any consequences that might come along with sex. And if you are not ready to do it, dont!! If your gf cant wait, then she really isnt the one for you.
2006-06-13 09:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont thin there is an age limit for boys but im sure there is for girls...in the UK the girl has to be 16 an din some other countries she has to be 17.so if your girl is at the right age and you both feel ready,,GO FOR IT!
2006-06-13 09:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Blou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific age to start having sex. If you are in love with someone and they are in love with you, no one can tell you ok it's time. That is you and your partner's decision. As long as you are doing it safely.
2006-06-13 09:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by chelseak20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,there's no magic age to have sex.It's all about when you're ready.I wouldn't push yourself though.Do you really want to be called "daddy" yet?Or have a shorter life due to STD's?Make sure you're with the right person,and wear protection!!
2006-06-13 09:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by JohnsWife81 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have 2 worry. just take a deep breath.and DO IT age doesnot matttteeerrrr.make sure u r 16 ++++
2006-06-13 09:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U WANT 2 THEN GO 4 IT BUT JUST USE A CONDOM CUZ U DONT WANT 2 GET THE GIRL PREGNANT.
2006-06-13 09:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋