About a week ago my lover moved back into his dads new apartment. Being only 18, I knew this was going to happen because he wanted to spend so much time at daddy's house anyway. After seven months I feel lonely without him. We see each other 3 times a week, but he also continues to use meth and will go where it is. Daddy is only enabling his use by not setting rules of how long he can be away from home. I use to use with him, but I let him know I was quitting - it just isn't fun anymore for me. Unfortunately, that is when he feels he can have sex more comfortably (bi) - after banging him for 7 months, I woke up one day and felt I was a meth ho for him and vice-versa. I know I'm better then that - the sex has stopped - I miss it, but I want no more meth and he is the best I've had. What to do?
2006-06-13 02:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by G.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have started to regain your life back. Meth will eventually bring anyone down to a living hell. I am proud you are strong enough to Put it behind you. But I am sorry to hear your boyfriend has not. the only way for you to survive is to let him be part of that pass also. I know its hard, but thats the path for you to move forward. Memories of a fun time is what you have, keep it, but that time has long pass. So keep moving in the right direction, don't look back.
2006-06-13 02:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by ced56 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, first off I admire you for using and then quitting, any type of drug is hard to quit. As for your boyfriend, there is no respect there that he shows you at all. The big problem is he is 18, his dad should not have to lay rules down on when he should be home or not. I say get on with your own life that will not involve drugs in it. If you are with someone that is using drugs it will be the downfall of the relationship itself. You don't need that. You need someone that will get high off of the love they will have for you and not make you always sit on the back burner. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-14 02:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on quitting. That is a very hard thing to do. I used to date a guy. I loved him more than anything at that point in my life. We were together for years. One day he came out and told me that his drugs were more important to him than I or my son was. I was extremely hurt, but eventually I wizened up. I'm now married to a person that has never touched drugs and who puts me and our family first in his life. I am also much happier now than I have ever been. You can find someone better that respects you and loves you for you. If you are strong enough to quit meth, you are strong enough to leave and find someone that will treat you better.
2006-06-13 02:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by bobbysgirl703 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew he used to be a drug addict, and also you permit him transfer in with you. What did you count on? Meth heads are unpredictable and VERY violent. You persevered to permit him degrade you and take competencies of you. There's a detailed factor wherein I give up feeling sorry for the girl and on this case, I do not think sorry for you considering you ALLOWED him to regard you horrible and did not depart earlier than it obtained worse.
2016-09-09 00:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him
2006-06-13 02:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the **** is wrong with you?
2006-06-13 02:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please get out while you can!
2006-06-13 02:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by cynthia_armymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋