i need a answer because im so confused of wat i should do ,help me please!!!!!!!!
2006-06-13 02:03:46 · 14 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said it in the first part of your sentence. "In Love". And the second part was "X", if you are in love then you wouldn't think twice about that X. Just be flattered & know you will always have that memory of times past, good & bad. Trying to go back to what once was, will not work. Learn from other peoples mistakes, besides you can't go around breaking hearts all WILLY NILLY cause you can't make up your mind! What about your present Love? What will this do to him? I mean if he loves you, good guys are so hard to come by these days, somebody else might snatch him from right beneat you. Don't blow it, keep the good thing!!!
2006-06-13 02:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your pass. The person you're in love with right now is your present. Why are you even considering this if you really love this person. Your answer should be easy. I'm guessing you still have feelings for your ex if you're confused. You need to sort yourself out and make a decision.
2006-06-13 09:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should take a good look at yourself and your relationship at hand because exs are there to ruin your relationship because they can't stand you with someone else.do you love your current boyfriend because if you do you shouldn't be confused.I know that you still have feelings for your old boyfriend but he hurt you in order for you to break up with him now do you want to go back there?Personally old flirts are just trying to bring you down because someone else has succeeeded in taking your heart if you go back to him. i promise you he will make the same mistake over again and knowing that he can smooth talk you to get back with him again
2006-06-13 09:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by ntondo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i love ma new bf so much we been together 4 months and me n ma ex were together 10 month n he still keeps tryin 2 get me bk after 5 months bein apart but it aint workin coz i love my current bf too much and i think we can last forever
so decide which u think you can last longest with and stick with them
i have a saying which may help too
"dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love and the one you love wont want you back so you will be alone"
think carefully before making harsh decisions
hope i have helped
xxx
2006-06-13 09:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love stay with that guy. Your ex is jealous that you arent with him anymore. It is his loss. You can ignore him but if that doesnt work, just dont do anything. If he calls you, dont pickup, if he E-mails you, dont read it, if he mails you a letter, dont read it. He will get tired of it and eventually stop. If his actions are bothering you, dont worry about it because your love for the other guy will keep you together.
2006-06-13 09:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go back and your remembering only the good times, remember, there was a reason you broke up in the first place otherwise he wouldn't be an ex
2006-06-13 09:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to remember what was the reason he /she become the ex. Like you say if you are in love , you should not be so easily distracted by a has been.
2006-06-13 09:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex that you are in love with someone else. If it's really bad, don't answer his/her phone calls. Tell your ex in no uncertain terms that it's over.
2006-06-13 09:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.. if u're confused its because you're not so in love.. so.. well do u have feelings for ur EX? if u do.. then which feeling is stronger?? and does ur ex really loves u? i mean.. is it worth fit?
2006-06-13 09:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by *moniluci* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore your ex.
2006-06-13 09:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by K N Swamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋