People either tease you or don't hang with you for being a virgin. I'm proud to be a virgin because i want my first time to be unsinful! I just wish ppl would respect me for savin myself. It doesn't matter to me like it does other ppl. Does sex really matter?
2006-06-13 02:07:29 · 29 answers · asked by omarigirl91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it does......
But I like your Attitude and determination........Keep it up!!!!!!
U've got right 2 b what u want 2 b.
2006-06-13 02:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by TalkToMe 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
of course it matters!! however many people especially guys have a different perspective about sex. Sex has become an indulgence and a fad among the young ones. Like eating fast food until obesity sets in. Do not let social pressure you into giving up your virginity. You take your time and when you feel comfortable. In a way keeping your virginity helps you filter out a lot of undesirable characters.....many men will lose interest in you once they found out they can't have sex with you. You can at least move on and narrow down your options of the men left that's still interested in you.
2006-06-13 09:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex does matter to you but it is in a far greater way then most people nnow days. Sex is highly important and is a bond between to people that are truly in love. In its own way sex should be a sign of marriage. Sex should be a bond and joy that hold two people in love close. Sex isnt just a fun past time like many ppl try to make it. You should be very proud. You can offer your true love something that many many ppl cant. Do not be turned aside from others say just hang in there
2006-06-13 09:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by shycountryboy85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now why would you have to ask this question if you were truly happy and proud of being a virgin? Trust there are thousands of ppl who wished they'd stayed a virgin and that's what we all should be, but with our society marriage is like clothing it changes every day and that's how ppl think, that it's OK too change partners and lovers, NO!
Thank you for being a person who is happy too be a virgin and knows what God has in store for your life and future. I hope my daughter will be like you.
2006-06-13 09:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex does not matter. It's society who puts so much emphasis on sex. Don't worry and please don't feel rushed or pressured. I'm glad you're proud to be a virgin and I'm very pround of you also! I have all the respect for you because you're not letting someone else decide for you or your body. Power to you and anytime you need a friend...you can e-mail me. I feel the same way...sex doesn't matter to me either. It's good to know you're saving yourself and you will definitely be rewarded for it. Remember you can only be a virgin once in your lifetime. Those people who tease or don't hang out with you are immature people. Feel free to e-mail me anytime. Take care.
2006-06-17 07:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about whether its important to other ppl its how you feel about it and whether you want to wait till after marriage. To most of the ppl who replied I wud just like to say that if u re not a virgin before you get married doesnt mean that u dont have morals or ethics. It comes down to wat u believe is right however on the contrary it doesnt mean because you feel it was rite to sleep wit multiple partners it is . Sex is a sacried act and should be done between two ppl who really love each other. Guys say that they wud like to marry a virgin, if thats wat u looking for then stop sleeping with chicks before you get married as well. Dnt set a precident if u cant live up 2 it.
2006-06-13 09:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by wiggly_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people tease others because they think that cause they had sex, they are adults, when that is not really the facts. They did cause they wanted attention, wanted to be popular, or was pressured into it. I was a virgin until i was 18 and people always pressured me to do it, but i waited until i found someone who was worth giving it to. Sex matters to people who really has nothing to do, but to do it.
2006-06-13 09:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later, between loving partners, sex does matter-- and rarely does it not--
Perhaps you are from a different planet, in which case we can all understand your fear of this totally natural and intimately connecting activity, which-- by definition, does NOT have to include actual intercourse in the event that you wish to save your virginity for marriage. Depending on your religion, you may be able to enjoy some contact that does not result in intercourse that is gratifying for both of you...
Good Luck...
2006-06-13 09:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by fitpro11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so nice to hear someone who still has morals!
Girl you should be very proud that you are sticking to what you believe! Don't care what everyone else thinks! You are not the only one who feels that way!
Not Getting Sex from you would not matter if someone cares and loves you for you.
Only then you will be able to tell if he really cares!!! Most guys lose interest in you after they get sex anyway!
2006-06-13 09:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by NightAngel101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well done!!! i am 23 and still a virgin, proudly so. and just like you, i want to be married when i have sex for the first time. i am truly chaffed to know there are others out there like me. While there is absolutely nothing wrong with sex, people have distorted and debased it by wrongly using it outside of marriage. and sex was simply designed to be enjoyed between husband and wife. so yes, sex does matter but in the right context. i hope girls like us do manage to stay away from pressure to sleep around and degrade our bodies...
2006-06-13 09:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by wimbieg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you I hope the virgin thing works out it is a good goal. I do not think that sex is sinful and yes sex matters. I would be afraid that i was saving myself for someone who is bad in bed how would you know if you never had sex before.
2006-06-13 09:10:54 · answer #11 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋