My father was an abuser when I was little. I went to live with my mother when I was 12. I didn't speak to him for 25 years, except for when my grandfather (his dad) past away. I initiated the conversation of course. My father has a habit of holding grudges, rages, and he's still stewing about his and my mother's relationship over 30 years ago. He's currently married to someone who puts up with his crap. But he continues to stew about the past and cannot let it go. I recently reconnected with him, and it went well for a while. Him and my step mother both told me that he can now hear my mother's name, and look at her pictures without getting ragingly mad. So I trusted that. It went alright for a while. Until this Thanksgiving. Some of you may have read my "Thanksgiving blowout" question on this forum. Since Thanksgiving, he is being so juvenile. We talked things out, and we were fine. They forgot to take their gifts home, so I sent it to them. I only put my step mother's name on.......
2007-12-30
04:44:16
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lady_bella
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