All categories - 20 December 2007

Stars to your question or points?

2007-12-20 04:40:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

And let me out tonight.
I need a good long ride on your rodeo,
And everything'll be all right.

Forgive me. I heard some good blues on the radio.

2007-12-20 04:40:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

I wanted to write a question that I really hope I can get some help with.
About 6 months ago I had an abortion that I really did not want to have, the pregnancy wasn’t planned but the dad and I had just started dating (we where both in relationships before but very good friends). I had always thought that if I got pregnant by exedent I would get an abortion but the amazing thing was that when I found out that I was pregnant or got a confirmation that I was (because I somehow just knew the next day) I was over whelmed whit joy. I told my partner about the pregnancy and he totally freaked out, said things like he didn’t understand that I would even consider keeping the baby and such. After a lot of fighting and talking and crying, he finally got to his senses and said that he would support me in what I wanted to do, although he made it clear that he wanted me to have an abortion. I was then determined to keep the baby, and like I had told him it would be up to him if he wanted to be any part of this (of course I hoped he would be). Then I called my mother to tell her the news, expecting her to be really happy (she has always been obsessed with me having kids, talking about how it’s better to have kids young and such I’m 25). When I told her she reacted way differently than I would have thought basically suggesting I got an abortion. My mom has always been my best friend and we are very close so this was a huge disappointment and shock for me. I told some of my really good friends that where all happy and exited for me, but the two people that mattered the most wanted me to terminate the pregnancy. At some point I decided to make an appointment but not to have the procedure done, but when I got there with my boyfriend I was in such a daze and so confused and exhausted from fighting, I felt like I had no control and before I knew the procedure was done, I wasn’t pregnant anymore. I don’t even remember the whole thing but the doctor told me when I went for a check up I cried the whole time (why she wouldn’t stop I don’t understand). The first month after, I was very sick and had tons of complications.
Well to try and wrap this up, I have been seriously sad even depressed ever since, I have horrible dreams and can’t stop thinking about my baby. Also I am so mad at them (even though I don’t want to and love them so much but I just cant help it) because I feel like they got what they wanted and took away the thing I wanted the most. For a while things between that “dad” and me where a little strange but then we started really dating again. Since the abortion I haven’t been able to thing about anything but to get pregnant again, I even thought about quitting my birth control (that I hate, because it just reminds me every day that I can’t get pregnant) without telling him (I honestly never thought I would even think thoughts as crazy as this).
Three months ago my boyfriend comes over after going out and having a few beers with his buddies, and starts telling me how awful he feels about the baby, how much he loves me and how he wants to have kid with me. I was really surprised for this sudden change of heart and a bit skeptical, but couldn’t help being happy. A few days later when I start talking about this (both parties sober) he tells me he probably said more than he should have and that at this point he thinks having a baby isn’t a good idea.
Since then we haven’t talked about it but all I wasn’t is to get pregnant and I feel like I’ll never get “better” until I do get pregnant and have his child, whether he sticks around or not. I am well on my way to get my PhD at a very prestigious university, I ‘m lucky enough to have the financial means to take care of myself and a baby (even him not that he needs that by any means) and could very well afford hiring help. I don’t know what his deal is, I know he loves me and wants to be with me (the man has picked out song for our wedding!) but I feel like he is to afraid to take the step, and when he dose he kind of backs out of it again.

What do I do? I’m so confused ….

2007-12-20 04:40:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

to throw out anyway, as Christmas gift?
I would wrap them!
I hear guys like that stuff!

2007-12-20 04:40:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

The screen went blank and it wouldnt turn on, this should not of happened considering it was brand new

2007-12-20 04:39:58 · 7 answers · asked by rew 1 in Music & Music Players

What should I do for christmas? I wanted to go to my parents house for the holiday because my whole family will be there. the only problem is my mother, all my life she has told me that I was a mistake.....that I should have never been born. my big sister past away last year in a car wreck, and yes, my sister was my moms favorite child. My mother told everybody that she wished it was me that died that day. But my father wants me there for christmas, he loves me and really wants to see me, but my mom is soo mean to me and says bad things about me infront of all my family. she did that last year to me while I was there, it was the worst christmas ever. so should I go? or should I make my own plans and not go?

2007-12-20 04:39:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-20 04:39:35 · 4 answers · asked by alva000 1 in Primary & Secondary Education

2007-12-20 04:39:34 · 9 answers · asked by Roy Jr. 1 in Buying & Selling

My cat, Bear, he is very emotional and I think a little crazy in the head. A couple of times while I was lying on my bed and he was right beside me. He all of a sudden just up and ran so fast out of the room. I was not moving and he was sound asleep.

Another time he was sound alseep and he just kind of meowed real loud.

Anyone have any similar experinces with there pets? He worries me...

2007-12-20 04:39:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cats

I like the double cheeseburger, no pickles with lots of Ketchup and Mustard

2007-12-20 04:39:28 · 33 answers · asked by karazona140 2 in Fast Food

2007-12-20 04:39:26 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren C 1 in Higher Education (University +)

How old was king tut when he died?



the teacher says 18...

I say 19


Who's right?

2007-12-20 04:39:16 · 11 answers · asked by Core 2 in History

2007-12-20 04:39:16 · 10 answers · asked by The Sidewalkinator 6 in Reptiles

I don't know just kinda came as a shock to me last night..that my mom is getting older..and one of these days she isn't going to be here anymore..but it was like such a vivid thought..it was so crazy!!

what have you realized lately?

2007-12-20 04:39:11 · 16 answers · asked by ~♥BLU3YED_SUICIDE~♥ 3 in Polls & Surveys

2007-12-20 04:39:07 · 4 answers · asked by cowpuncher 1 in Dodge

It seems like we always discuss stuff on here, and then the next day it shows up on ESPN... This question is kind of a joke... but it really wouldn't surprise me... They have people monitor certain blog sites... Your thoughts?

2007-12-20 04:39:02 · 9 answers · asked by Reduviidae 6 in Baseball

The graphics card in the computer is an nVidia Riva TNT2.
I some how accidently changed the refresh rate of my monitor to 100 mhz when My crappy graphics card can only support 60mhz . And now my monitor is all fuzzy and has slanted lines across it. Also the screen appear as though it "scrolling" from right to left really fast.

If I was to get rid of that graphics card and put a new one in, would the problem be solved and the refresh rate reset to the lowest setting(in my case, 60 Mhz)? or is there another solution to this problem other than getting a new graphics card?

2007-12-20 04:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by demonfish1556 1 in Monitors

Nice coincidence, eh?

2007-12-20 04:38:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics

1) What other NHL city also had the FLAMES mascot?

2) The Tampa Bay Lightning beat the Flames in the Stanley Cup final of 2004 ;). What player now plays for the Flames, which did played for Lightning in 2004?

3) “Goal on Sight” is a program initiated by what the group/businesses?

4) Who was the first Flames player inducted in the HHOF?

5) What former Flames coach had a son that was in Olympic gold medalist?

2007-12-20 04:38:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Hockey

2007-12-20 04:38:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Non-Alcoholic Drinks

I understand that for some being Catholic or Jewish or Mormon or (Insert religion here) is a cultureal heritage rather that a personally chosen belief system but would someone please explain the propensity of so many Catholics in America to personally disagree with fundimental doctrines of their church and still refer to themselves as Catholic?

2007-12-20 04:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Mike B 5 in Religion & Spirituality

I understand that the state of a system at any instant of time is completely specified if we give the positions and velocities of all the particles, but why not also the accelerations and higher derivatives?

2007-12-20 04:38:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Physics

about the Polls & Surveys section

2007-12-20 04:38:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

i have bought red skinnys and bronze heels what can i wear with them?

2007-12-20 04:38:07 · 15 answers · asked by Weestarry 2 in Fashion & Accessories

It seems to be between my upper and lower teeth What is this?

2007-12-20 04:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dental

2007-12-20 04:37:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

2007-12-20 04:37:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

I heard that.

2007-12-20 04:37:49 · 8 answers · asked by Pie 3 in Immigration

I need too find out this for school.

2007-12-20 04:37:42 · 5 answers · asked by johnbob202 1 in Packing & Preparation

If you believe a God or Gods is responsible for the creation of humans, why would they be made to die? Also, why the 50-80 general age range? Why don't humans live to be 300? If you don't believe humans were created by God, but believe in a God, what are your thoughts on human death?

Also state your religion.

2007-12-20 04:37:32 · 33 answers · asked by Take it from Toby 7 in Religion & Spirituality