Everytime I've visited my brother and his wife it means seeing her whole family. They're drunk, stupid, mean, always fighting. If it's the holidays, I bring gifts. I have yet to get even a Christmas card from any of them, and never a thank you. So I stopped going. It's 6 hours away from where I live, and it's miserable. Why bother?
She caused a fight in our family that left my mother dying without talking to my brother.
One of her nephews invited me to his wedding. I said yes, as he's the only one of the bunch I like. Then my SisInLaw says, "Oh, if you're coming, you can package up all the leftover food from Happy Hour while we go into the reception. We're paying for it, we should take it home!" So I didn't go to the wedding. Again, not worth it. I sent a check.
Now I avoid talking to her. If I call that house, I never get to talk to him. She just blabs on about her family. I email my bro 2X a week. But I really miss him, we used to be so close.
What do I do?
2007-12-07
20:49:08
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rinchkarnk
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