I have been with my boyfiend for almost 2 /12 years and we are also moving towards getting engaged.
Early on in our relationship, we had some turbulance because two of his ex-girlfriends began to actively pursue him when they found out that he was getting serious with me. They would call him, send him cards for very occassion, etc. It really caused tension between he & I, because I knew that they had motives and I felt that he was perpetuating their interest by always responding to their calls, exchanging cards w/them still, etc.
I am not a controlling person, but I did ask him to please cut them both off, because of their unresolved feelings for him. They obviously were still trying to stay in his life for the wrong reasons.
Well, it's the holidays and by no means was I snooping, but I saw his Christmas Cards about to go out (he owns a small business) for clients & some personal contacts, and sure enough one of his exes was on there.
Should I be upset? I feel it......
2007-12-03
03:47:02
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