When a friend of mine and I disagree, she becomes sooky and plays the silence game until I phone her and apologize, regardless of whether I did anything wrong. In the past I have overlooked this & called Miss Stubborn anyway to keep the peace, but it's started to bug me that she never recognizes her part in our disagreements. Last year I made a trip to the other side of the country where Miss Stubborn lives, but stayed with another friend of mine who I'd been planning on staying with for ages. I contacted Miss Stubborn and let her know that I'd arrived in her city and would love to catch up sometime. I could tell she was annoyed that I'd chosen to stay with someone else, but given that Miss Stubborn was in the middle of moving house, I thought it'd be best for me not to stay with her. I told Miss Stubborn how long I'd be in her city for & suggested she contact me when she was free- she never did & we haven't spoken since. Should I let her sort out her issues or give her a call?
2007-12-01
23:45:33
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