My mom was living with this younger guy for 4 yrs. She divorced my dad for him. I thought it was a bad idea, especially since he was 30 & shes 47 but since I'm grown and not living at home, there was little I could do about it. Just a few days ago, the guy dumped her. He told her a while back that he didn't want to marry her. But they were building a house together. He wouldnt let her put any money into it. She also bought herself a ring and changed her last name to his. I think she was pushing herself on him in a way and he was only wanting a good time and let it go too far. I think he was too scared to tell her and he liked having her around. What advice do I give her about it? She will be staying with me & my family for a while, so its bound to come up. I cant make her do anything, I know, but how can I help her see that its best to just cut her losses and move on? I dont want her to find some other younger guy who likes to be waited on hand and foot, either.
2007-11-25
16:24:54
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