I am in my late twenties and have had a 4 troubled year relationship with an amazing girl five years younger than I. She suffers from a terrible abusive past, with many unresolved issues stemming from her father's prolonged sexual abuse. She eventually put him in prision for this, and has done much to put her life together. She is extremely bright, as she is putting herself through college (majoring in engineering and mathematics), and a very kind and loving person. Still, she has a lot of trouble with jealousy, self-worth, and self abuse. We have now been apart for some months, each of us dating other people. Despite our problems, our love for each other brings us back together again and again. I learned that the slept with a "friend" of mine that even lived in my home for some time. In my extreme anger, I told each of their signifigant others about how they had cheated on them, sabotaging their relationships. Any thoughts/suggestions? I can't seem to stop loving her.
2007-11-10
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Marriage & Divorce