My husband and I have been going through many difficulties as you can tell if you read my old posts. We rarely if ever had sex and he showed no attraction to me whatsoever. No kissing, hugging or showing any attention of that kind. When he almost loses me and I start to agree with seperation/divorce he becomes attentive, loving, and kisses me like he hasnt since before we got married. He talks about sex more often and how much he loves and misses me, etc...
Is this normal? I didnt feel loved, desired or cared for at all for a long time. We were like roommates. Its becoming that way again and although I ask him to lay beside me, or hold me, or just hug me or kiss my cheek he makes excuses and finds reasons not too. I love this man, and I crave just some small bit of show of love and appreciation but it never comes. We have been married a year and a half. Will it ever change? Why does it take my leaving for him to want me and then when he has me again he quits wanting me again?
2007-11-01
08:33:41
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aalshafi
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Marriage & Divorce