I'm a guy, early 30s, great job, good looking, love to meet new people and love making people laugh. Whenever I go on a date, I act myself, have an easy-going light conversation, but after a couple of dates, there really isn't much else that's "new" to talk about. I feel like I'm the one that has to keep the conversation going while the girl just sits there looking pretty and expects to be entertained. I hate that! And when I show interest in a girl by complementing her (which I try to do in a subtle way), I notice that the same girls who were nervous around me -or- seemed interested in me suddenly act like they have the upper hand or start flaking out. What can I do to sustain their interest during dates? What do guys talk about on the 4th, 5th, 6th dates? I enjoy doing typical things like movies, theater, hanging out, etc. Also love cooking and traveling and have cooked at home for girls in the past. But after the initial dates, how do I show/sustain interest in a subtle way?
2007-10-29
02:43:27
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riddler
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