my dad got a random 17 yr old girl at a party pregnant when he was 15, and stayed with her. when i 1 month she split and my dads looked after me ever since. he has mates over all the time but wont date. it makes me feel guilty, as if i ruined his life. he tells me that "i am the only girl he needs" but i don’t believe it. he wont go out to clubs, where he could meet heaps of chicks, and he is a good looking, nice bloke. i think he is worried about the change, because his parents kicked him out when he got the girl pregnant. So iv never had a mother figure, or grandparents. My dads parents say that they don’t want to meet me, and the only contact they have with him is when they send a Christmas card. It has only ever been the two of us, and friends, never girlfriends. i want him to date but he wont. what can i do? we are very closeand a girlfriend would make him happyer. he thinks that any one his age would run away screaming when he says he has a 15 yr old daughter. what do you think? Before saying stuff about me needing a mother and everything, and that dad should try and find her, he has tried to find her many times, but she has just dissapered. The only proof that he has of my mother ever existing is me, and one foto of her. One of his friends partners told me one day that maybe he didn’t want me to see someone that wasn’t my mother become my mother. Please help me.
2007-10-19
22:29:46
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