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She filed for a simple divorce and she did not want any money. She can get a half of matrimonial home but she didn’t want it for now (she can claim it up to 2 years after divorce) I had 30 days to disagree and file an answer with the court. On 29th days I went to the court and I checked the court copy and I was shocked:
On the court copy she mentioned the reason for filing the divorce: Abuse and control
On the copy she gave me she mentioned: irreconcilable differences

I could easily get a lawyer and accuse her to fraud but I did not, I am not a fighter. I called her and told her what I saw, she said: I made a mistake; I gave the wrong copy to the court. I asked her to show me the Original. She said: we will go to the court together tomorrow and fix it. Next morning I asked her what time we will meet in the court she became angry and screamed at me: I am not self employed like you! I have to go to work and then ask my manager and come, I will give you a call. After 2 hours, I called her at work and realized she never went to her office that morning! She went to the court from home and asked the court clerk to switch the papers!
I talked to the clerk in the court later and she said she made a mistake and she should have checked the documents more carefully…

It is about a month that she wants to find an apartment but she procrastinates. She has a good job (she has a master degree) and can afford moving to another place. She is a control freak, do not trust me and does not believe in family counseling! We went to a counselor and she calls her a shrink and after 2 sessions she refused to come. She told me she is making the situation worst. She has called her and threatened the doctor that leave 2 of us alone (controlling issues).I saw some notes that she is writing for the counselor: her conditions to continue this marriage! I was living in hell for a year and a half and now she want to add more conditions. After all these, she still wants to come back! When she gets angry, she says bad things about my family…

What is the best way to get this woman out of my life? I do not want to fight. I think there should be a way to ask her to leave the house and after that tell her that it is better that we proceed with the divorce file.

2007-10-18 03:24:40 · 12 answers · asked by mazyar m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which one would win in a mud wrestle?

My vote goes to Gene Simmons. He's not as grumpy as Terry Hogan and Nick Simmons is gorgeous.

2007-10-18 03:24:21 · 8 answers · asked by Lady Godiva 5 in Reality Television

2007-10-18 03:24:01 · 4 answers · asked by A 1 in Other - Science

It seems like whenever someone says something against homosexuality, they are deemed homophobic, which basically is explained as : if you don't like homosexual activity then you are homophobic, and you are homophobic because you don't like homosexual activity, and because of your bias against homosexual activity, all your opinions concerning homosexuality have no merit because they are based on a fear.

My question is: if that is true, then is the converse true as well? meaning that if I grant card blanche to homosexual activity just on the basis alone that it is homosexual activity, and don't criticize any aspect of it, am I also practicing a homophobia?

I ask this because I see two ends of a spectrum here, one that opposes the behavior of these people in all respects and thereby voices opposition to it, versus the other end of the spectrum that grants a pass to all activities engaged in by these people by never opposing the behavior of said group.

What's your opinion?

2007-10-18 03:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by Wayne G 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-10-18 03:23:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I have my ideas (been married for 11 years) but what are your three most important elements to make a lasting marriage successful?

2007-10-18 03:23:55 · 22 answers · asked by theCATALYST 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 03:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by Dane Dimen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 03:23:45 · 22 answers · asked by Birdy is my real name 6 in Religion & Spirituality

Who things the Red Sox can win this one tonight?

2007-10-18 03:23:26 · 27 answers · asked by Miss Amber 3 in Baseball

http://digg.com/offbeat_news/Tasered_Shot_With_Bean_Bag_Rounds_For_Filming_Warrantless_Police_Search

Since cameras are such dangerous weapons, don't we need to take them off of the streets?

2007-10-18 03:23:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Law Enforcement & Police

2007-10-18 03:23:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

Did william shakespeare write the play william shakespeare?

2007-10-18 03:23:20 · 3 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Theater & Acting

So me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 years, he is currently building a house for us. I thought we were at that stage where he would ask me to marry him soon. Last night her told me that a friend of ours is going to propose to his girlfriend (they are the only friends of ours other than us who are not engaged or married) I found myself not be happy for them but angry and jealous. I just thought it would be my turn next, and I'm starting to feel like he is never going to propose to me. We talk about it from time to time and he says he does want to marry me. I dont want to pressure him by bringing it up but how do I stop being angry about this and jealous?

2007-10-18 03:23:11 · 22 answers · asked by Stacy! 2 in Weddings

Why do people bid more on eBay for an item than it costs to buy in the shops brand new?? Usually for DVDs and games you can see someone selling them on ebay and they sell for twice the price thatyou can buy them in online stores.

2007-10-18 03:23:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Business & Finance

2007-10-18 03:23:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Software

BOSTON - Sabrina Rahim doesn't practice any particular faith, but she had no problem signing a letter declaring that because of her deeply held religious beliefs, her 4-year-old son should be exempt from the vaccinations required to enter preschool.
But public health officials say it takes only a few people to cause an outbreak that can put large numbers of lives at risk.

"When you choose not to get a vaccine, you're not just making a choice for yourself, you're making a choice for the person sitting next to you," said Dr. Lance Rodewald, director of the CDC's Immunization Services Division.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071018/ap_on_re_us/vaccine_skeptics

2007-10-18 03:22:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics

I know you can stop over in a motorway services. But what about laybys, truck stops,picnic sites etc.
What about the safety issue?

2007-10-18 03:22:20 · 5 answers · asked by tigger_smokie 2 in Safety

2007-10-18 03:22:13 · 3 answers · asked by Nitin T F1 fan 5 in Aircraft

I'm not going to get very much from the federal government or scholarships, and my parents aren't paying for college. Does anyone know which banks/lenders have a good reputation for offering manageable student loans? I live in Indianapolis, IN.

2007-10-18 03:22:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Financial Aid

My French Bulldog is now going on 3 years old. I wasn't aware earlier in her life before her 1st heat cycle that I should have gotten her fixed. Well I keep putting it off because it cost so much through my Vet. Everyone keeps telling me to go to SPCA or PETA but I am scared that they won't take as good of care as her Vet will. I need some advice on what to do, or success stories that would make me feel better!?

2007-10-18 03:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by prnczdez 1 in Dogs

A certain someone??

2007-10-18 03:21:38 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

the vet requires a urine sample but hows that possible, whats the easiest way to acomplish this please ?

2007-10-18 03:21:36 · 21 answers · asked by rentagubb 1 in Cats

I bashed the screen in a few weeks ago and it looks like the color is bleeding all through the left side of the screen. It has progressively gotten worse and almost unusable. I can't read anything on the left side, where almost every artist, album and song is listed. I would really prefer not to buy a new iPod. What are my options here?

2007-10-18 03:21:31 · 6 answers · asked by Ryan 4 in Music & Music Players

Something you might throw on when you're feeling particulaly cheesed off or down ?

2007-10-18 03:21:29 · 9 answers · asked by kirst is back!! 6 in Polls & Surveys

Thank you form your answers! :)

Have a wonderful day! :)

2007-10-18 03:21:28 · 11 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-10-18 03:21:12 · 7 answers · asked by XRAYDELTA1 2 in Garden & Landscape

I got my fuel pumped changed on friday, and today it did not want to start. Its getting towed back to the mechanic now, what do you think the problem is NOW??

1994 Chevy Camaro 3.4 sv6


cant be the alternator cause I changed that this past august and cant be the battery cause that was changed in august as well


yes the car still cranked and i did not leave anything on. I really do not think it is the battery...

I just found out that my car was not starting because I did not have any gas. My meter was telling me that a had half a tank of gas. The gauge is messed up, and its going to be $500 to fix. I could not afford to get it fixed. One of my fiends is going to try to find one at a junk yard. I just have to always make sure I have gas, and think about how much in my head.

2007-10-18 03:21:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Chevrolet