My last bf bought me expensive clothes and shoes, most of which he picked out. He spent thousands on gifts, airline tickets (although never first class), dates, etc., in the eight months he dated. But I always felt like just a piece of arm-candy, and I never had any say in the trips or other stuff. I mean, once he walked into a formal gown boutique (very exclusive, appt only) and dropped $4000 on two gowns (we only needed one for the charity gala we were attending, but he liked two of them, so he said, why not?). Keep in mind, I'm a poor mother of two who would have loved a sofa, a new flute (I'm a music teacher and my flute was stolen a couple of years ago; believe me, I hinted!), or even a used car for that money. I have no use for the gowns in my closet now. He was controlling in all ways: bedroom, relationship, etc. Nightmare bf. Should I watch out for men with money?
2007-10-08
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